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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Sevenseas</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867383"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
I don't understand what you mean by that. It's like reading a foreign language. Could you translate it into man-speak?</div>
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yes, she needs to dumb it down to my level <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">.
 

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i look at it like this: given my income, i could be living at lot larger and more traditionally. nice big house in a nice neighborhood with houses all laid out in neat squares. nice new car. instead, i am living on a little farm in a mobile home (overimproved, but nontheless, it's a TRAILER). i drive a 2003 truck. i've put money into a video studio in the middle of nowhere like i'm addicted to crack cocaine. seriously, i think most women would take a look at that and that's all they'd need to see, in terms of thinking relationship. as in not. so no, i don't understand why she'd be coming on so strong with me unless she thought she could change me and civilize me on her terms. that would never happen. but she would have to change a lot for me to accept that she's who i'd really be satisfied with no matter how cute she is. and i don't want to change anyone.<br><br>
maybe i should just say "i think you're cute, but i don't want a relationship. let's just get together for some really hot no strings sex" <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">. no, i'm not really going to do that. i'm going to avoid her. i feel better now that i've thought it out. this doesn't make sense. this is work, and i need to play outside of work. so okay, my life sucks, and i wouldn't have it any other way. this is a dumb thread i never should have started.
 

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this is a dumb thread i never should have started.</div>
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You poor thing....
 

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Go out with her - just keep the groping and rubbing away from the hospital.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/tongue3.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":p"> Seriously, have some self-control and respect for both jobs. She obviously likes you - go out and see if the sparks continue to fly once you're away from work. Don't over analyze, just go out!
 

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Go out with her - just keep the groping and rubbing away from the hospital.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/tongue3.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":p"> Seriously, have some self-control and respect for both jobs. She obviously likes you - go out and see if the sparks continue to fly once you're away from work. Don't over analyze, just go out!</div>
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good advice. separate the two and you'll be fine.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>papayamon</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867266"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
i have met an extremely attractive girl, but she works with me. she's single, and suddenly i find myself hitting it off with her extremely well. she's giving me all the signs to go ahead, and i have to say it's making me dizzy, or at least the sex crazed beast part of me (that would be about 99%).<br><br>
but every time i've gotten involved with another nurse, within a day it was the talk of the entire hospital. and then after a few weeks of groping in the elevators and the med rooms, it all comes crashing down. i just don't think i'm cut out for long term relationships, or at least i certainly don't want one at this time. then i've got to work with someone who is now a former ex that i've hurt with rejection on some level.<br><br>
i am not sure exactly how to handle this. i say this after a good friend of mine quit after he broke up with his girlfriend, who also works here. i've got a superb job and it would really suck to lose it over that.<br><br>
if i knew her some other way, i'm sure i'd already be in her pants. probably that sounds terrible to most women, but that's truly the way i think, or at least that's what i'm thinking with. i feel like i'm at the edge of a whirlpool. so this IS a form of torture. why does life have to suck like this?</div>
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That's what you get when you 'grope in elevators and med rooms' I'm guessing when you should be working and taking care of people.<br><br>
BTW, you shouldn't date people in the work place. It's inappropriate on many levels. It's good to keep it in your pants on your 9-5.
 

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great post <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">.
 

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just talk to her more to see what she is like and if she maybe wants the same thing as you. i wouldn't suggest ask straightly because you work together and all. but i see no reason for you to control and show respect and what not in case she as well wants to get laid and wants no relationship. i would say that if yuo were working with me and i was rubbing my boobs on you it would be a good sign for that. but then not everyone is the same and maybe it is her sign for wanting a relationship. in this case, aftder you find out stay away from her and sleep with others
 

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Sometimes you just have to live in the moment. Life's too short to worry about everything that MAY happen. I'm not saying you should be reckless with people, but if people are butting their noses into your business, well they're the a$$holes, not you.
 

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Well since you seem to be the kind of guy who hates women but loves their body parts, I'm surprised you haven't discovered the RealDoll. They're always ready when you are and there is no pesky brain inside their heads that'll make them actually open their mouths to say something. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/pimp.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":tame:">
 

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You're probably not reading the right threads. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/tongue3.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":p">
 

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Well since you seem to be the kind of guy who hates women but loves their body parts, I'm surprised you haven't discovered the RealDoll. They're always ready when you are and there is no pesky brain inside their heads that'll make them actually open their mouths to say something. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/pimp.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":tame:"></div>
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hey thanks. i edited this post because that came out a little meaner than i wanted it to sound. ok, i'm a *******, hate on me! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">.
 

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i would agree, that pesky brain in your head would make you not worth talking to. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">. and in all honesty, i'm sure your looks wouldn't merit a second glance either, so ALL your body parts are absolutely safe, at least from the likes of me. happy, or just here to pick shi* because i am not your version of a politically correct wuss who can't tie his own shoelaces without direction from the likes you you? and i don't see where i started this thread to fight with you, or where i have ever picked a fight with you. if you don't like my opinions, you are welcome to jump in a mudpuddle. it might improve you. so there <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">. heh.</div>
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Stop being so rude and personal!
 

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Stop being so rude and personal!</div>
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that's a 2 way street.
 

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To be fair papayamon, I don't recall you ever speaking positively (other than sexual attributes) about any woman you know, other than your mother, and you have repeatedly made remarks that indicate you think that women in general are basically interested in men's money.
 

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that's a 2 way street.</div>
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bingo<br><br>
I am with papaya here. there should be more men who just want to have fun <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">
 

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bingo<br><br>
I am with papaya here. there should be more men who just want to have fun <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)"></div>
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Do you know any men at all? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)"><br><br>
I think most men would be very happy with JUST having fun.
 

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To be fair papayamon, I don't recall you ever speaking positively (other than sexual attributes) about any woman you know, other than your mother, and you have repeatedly made remarks that indicate you think that women in general are basically interested in men's money.</div>
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well, first it's true that i do love my mommy. and my daughters. and i certainly do have a lot of female friends, especially at work, that i get along with just great. iv'e made a lot of great friends in my profession, and none of them would say i'm a woman hater based on the way i act in real life. this is a message board, and sometimes i am guilty of making flip comments, which probably wouldn't be a big deal unless you live your life around a message board and confuse that with reality. i would honestly say few women are after JUST money, and money is a necessity to live, so we all pay attention to it. i will admit i've been frustrated in relationships because she wanted me to have more money and more time and those two things are impossible to reconcile. but i think that is most men.
 
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