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i have met an extremely attractive girl, but she works with me. she's single, and suddenly i find myself hitting it off with her extremely well. she's giving me all the signs to go ahead, and i have to say it's making me dizzy, or at least the sex crazed beast part of me (that would be about 99%).<br><br>
but every time i've gotten involved with another nurse, within a day it was the talk of the entire hospital. and then after a few weeks of groping in the elevators and the med rooms, it all comes crashing down. i just don't think i'm cut out for long term relationships, or at least i certainly don't want one at this time. then i've got to work with someone who is now a former ex that i've hurt with rejection on some level.<br><br>
i am not sure exactly how to handle this. i say this after a good friend of mine quit after he broke up with his girlfriend, who also works here. i've got a superb job and it would really suck to lose it over that.<br><br>
if i knew her some other way, i'm sure i'd already be in her pants. probably that sounds terrible to most women, but that's truly the way i think, or at least that's what i'm thinking with. i feel like i'm at the edge of a whirlpool. so this IS a form of torture. why does life have to suck like this?
 

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You poor thing....
 

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Ask her for a date, go out, don't sleep with her, stave off your selfish desire and get to know her. If you're not just mindlessly humping and groping each other, people will be more likely to take your relationship with her seriously, and less likely to gossip.<br><br>
Anyway 'based on beauty love soon fades,' so make sure it's the girl's personality you are into, and not just her body, otherwise you're ruining your work environment and both of your personal lives.
 

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like stated earlier, if this is why your life sucks, let me bust out my remarkably small violin.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Kappa</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867274"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Ask her for a date, go out, don't sleep with her, stave off your selfish desire and get to know her. If you're not just mindlessly humping and groping each other, people will be more likely to take your relationship with her seriously, and less likely to gossip.<br><br>
Anyway 'based on beauty love soon fades,' so make sure it's the girl's personality you are into, and not just her body, otherwise you're ruining your work environment and both of your personal lives.</div>
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the way she's been hugging me and rubbing her breasts all over me (she has to know what she's doing) , you are asking the impossible. if i don't stop drooling, i think i'm going to need a drool cup.<br><br>
if you only knew how much self control i've been exercising, and how hard this is getting for me, even the feminists here would be proud of me.<br><br>
this is very good advice. i just don't think i could pull it off.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Capstan</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867269"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
You poor thing....</div>
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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>unovegan</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867281"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
like stated earlier, if this is why your life sucks, let me bust out my remarkably small violin.</div>
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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>papayamon</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867287"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
if you only knew how much self control i've been exercising, and how hard this is getting for me, even the feminists here would be proud of me.</div>
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Not really. You know what your options are, given that you're not interested in a relationship other than a sexual one, and certainly not interested in a longer term relationship. Now you just have to decide whigh price you'd rather apy.
 

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Have you put much thought into polyamory?!
 

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Not really. You know what your options are, given that you're not interested in a relationship other than a sexual one, and certainly not interested in a longer term relationship. Now you just have to decide whigh price you'd rather apy.</div>
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it's coming to me that i'm going to avoid her like the plague. the price is too high. this does prove that my life does suck, however. there i said it. my life sucks!
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>unovegan</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867297"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Have you put much thought into polyamory?!</div>
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my mind doesn't work that way. when i'm into a girl, i'm oblivious to other women till the ether wears off. the problem is that it does wear off, and then what?
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>papayamon</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2867298"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
it's coming to me that i'm going to avoid her like the plague. the price is too high. this does prove that my life does suck, however. there i said it. my life sucks!</div>
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agreed. as there are only 3 fish out in the sea, your options are pretty limited.
 

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agreed. as there are only 3 fish out in the sea, your options are pretty limited.</div>
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if my life were a greek play, the chorus would be singing "your life sucks" to me.
 

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It seems like you haven't said anything about what you think she sees in you.
 

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It seems like you haven't said anything about what you think she sees in you.</div>
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sevenseas, how am i possibly going to understand what goes on in the mind of a woman? i don't think she could see me as anything other than in ultra hard working guy, professionally speaking. after that, who knows? if i start to analyze that, then i get really dizzy. i know she's a super nice, caring lady. i've seen that in her with patients. she's making jokes about us having sex, so i have to think she's a bit attracted to me sexually (but again, why?). but i could take her on a date, and she could be very distant. you never know till you're there.<br><br>
i must have a pea sized brain. this is why i'm where i am in life, and not somewhere a lot better.
 

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This is a joke, right?
 

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Life sucks because god hates you.
 

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Life sucks because god hates you.</div>
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best post of the day?!
 

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Life sucks because god hates you.</div>
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yeah, that too. at least i hope she's amused over this. it does prove that god is a women <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">.
 

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sevenseas, how am i possibly going to understand what goes on in the mind of a woman?</div>
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Yeah, because we are just SO different and MYSTERIOUS. I think that men and women forget that we are all human and basically want the same things.
 

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Yeah, because we are just SO different and MYSTERIOUS. I think that men and women forget that we are all human and basically want the same things.</div>
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I don't understand what you mean by that. It's like reading a foreign language. Could you translate it into man-speak?
 
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