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If I offend anyone, I deeply apologize. I just want to update ya'll on my situtation, and some more tidbits about what went on.<br><br><br><br><br><br>
It's been a couple of weeks since I broke up with Sal. It is a huge relief! I stopped IM'ing him as someone suggested, and I ignored all but two of his e-mails. I don't feel the same way I did when I first met him. When he told me he was seeing someone else, I was hurt and saddened. He says that he didn't mean to hurt me, but I find that VERY hard to believe. He KNEW that it would hurt me, therefore, what he did was premeditated .<br><br><br><br><br><br>
If he was such a great guy, he wouldn't have cheated. He sounds EXACTLY like my ex Alan. He said he didn't mean to hurt me either. He would e-mail me, constantly saying I'm sorry I hurt you, blah, blah, BLAH.<br><br><br><br>
That turd broke up with me by E-MAIL! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/rifle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":gun:"> That is SO insensitive. He didn't even have the guts to do it in person. Sal and I didn't break up in person either! He then had the F***king audacity to suggest me moving in with him and occasionally having sexual relations with him (aka Screw Buddy, Friend with Benefits, and getting freaky on the DL)<br><br><br><br>
I wanted to <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/rifle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":gun:"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/kick.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":junk:"> and <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/whack.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":whack:"> him at that point. Having relations with him after a breakup would go against the very promise that I made nearly 5 years ago: never date a man that is married or in a relationship, period. I went against that by staying with him.<br><br><br><br><br><br>
The trust has been broken. When I think of him, I feel a bit of coldness, and resentment. Because of people like him, I find it hard to trust men. Trust is something that is earned, not a privilege.<br><br><br><br>
He should've never pursued a relationship, while he was still in another one with someone else. It wasn't fair to me. He is in NO position to be in a relationship with the kinds of emotional problems he has. That, and other things contributed to the breakdown of our relationship.<br><br><br><br>
I don't care if he reads this. At this point, I've moved on. I'm back on the dating scene. I hope to find someone that is worthy of my trust and love. It saddens me that the relationship went down in flames. I trusted him, and he totally wrecked everything. He brought his problems on himself. He has no one to blame but himself. I forgive him for what he did, but I will never get back together with him.
 

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You go, girl! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/rockon.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":rockon:">
 
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