[GhostUser]

i need to rant a little bit.... my husband went to a lowrider show out of state for work. he left thurs and got back yesterday. so he gets home and asks me if i will unpack his bag while he hops in the shower,so i did. in his bag what did i find? a box of condoms!!

and do you know what he tells me."there not mine they're Jason's". like im that stupid grrrr.

and he wonders why i want to split up? duh? on top of that he is all but begging me to no leave. at least he could've entertained me with a better excuse than, "they belong to a friend.

ok thanks i needed to get that off of my chest

 

[MorningStarr]

My mom found a receipt for condoms laying beside the trash can, so she ran outside very mad to confront her boyfriend.

MOM; Why in the hell did you buy condoms???

BF: Because I can!

M: Are you planning on using them with somebody?

BF: *walks away pouting*

hmmm guys are strange sometimes sorry about that aj's mommy

 

[GhostUser]

Isn't it odd how some people seem to want to get caught?!?

And, of course, sorry for your relationship problems...

 

[GhostUser]

I would have suggested that I wanted hygenic anal sex, to explain the condoms...his excuse was pretty lame.

 

[GhostUser]

he doesn't feel guilty. he says that thats the way he is. he says its his culture. i could tell by the look on his face he forgot them there. i guess it really don't matter our lease is up on the 1st of the month, and im out of here. im not that bad looking of a person and i think im a nice person and i deserve to be with someone who respects me. i just should've stood up for myself sooner

 

[Thalia]

I'm very sorry to hear about that. I hope everything turns out for the best for you. Sounds like you are pretty smart about looking out for your best interests.

 

[TreeManEarthSteward]

Do you think he "forgot" the condoms were in his bag seeing that

he asked you to unpack it for him, I say "PROBABLY"!!!... cos if he had recalled what was in his bag, he would have wanted to keep them concealed from you I would think...(?) especially IF he were experiencing a guilty conscience and all that.

Anyway, this sucks EVEN IF it is innocent which I doubt it is, because his excuse was so bogus & lousey... and just --urgh yeah right!!!!!

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Right well... okay I just read the follow up whilst having reposted my above text, and well its the same now too in that l see you confirming something is not right with how he's going about things of whatever it is that has lead him into his descent of unfaithfulness and the 'culture thing' which you mention and also

"ego" that probably has a lot to do with it too!!!

....so anyway good luck in finding that someone that respects you and recognizes that you know yourself you deserve better, and that instinct & common are your saviours and of course what best to do now is...."Just Leave him I reckon!!!"

and don't hesitate cos it doesn't sound to me like you need the likes of him anyway heh!... Go find another!!!

 

[Max Power]

A good looking girl like you doesn't have to put up with bullsh&t like that! Kick his arse to the curb, girl!

 

[GhostUser]

he's gonna have fun teaching himself how to do laundry, cause he's never done a load in his life and he's 26.

 

[TreeManEarthSteward]

hahaha....Good one AJ!!!!

 

[carnelian]

I know from experience that you are far better off without him! Hugs to you during this difficult time.

 

[muppetcow]

Hang in there--it's going to be tough for a while, but you're better off without him. You're right--you deserve to be with someone who respects you and treats you like the goddess that you are.

 

[epski]

Quote:

Originally posted by Johnny Mayberry

I would have suggested that I wanted hygenic anal sex, to explain the condoms...his excuse was pretty lame.

LOL. I'm sorry aj's'mommy, but that was funny.

It's a drag about *sshole, but it's also good he made it so easy for you to figure out. He coulda gone years hiding it, unless he's too stupid to pull that off, which I suspect is also quite possible.

At any rate. Sorry to hear about it (divorce sucks the big one), but good riddance!

 

[AuroraLily]

You sound like you are a great person. Stay strong. The life awaiting you is going to be far better.