My best friend of many years is finally getting married. I saw it coming. That alone is stressful. However, I have had some bad feelings about the guy and the relationship for a long time. He isn't a bad guy, just questionable- kind of anal and controlling(mildly) and she is a free-spirited hippy girl.<br><br><br><br>
But who am I to judge, I thought. Until a few months ago she said, "I know I could find someone better, but I aint gonna look for him, this is the end of the line for me." I have never expressed my concern over this to her.<br><br><br><br>
And today I get an email that they are getting married. She also told me a while back that she'd want me to be her maid of honor.<br><br><br><br>
How do I feign happiness?<br><br><br><br>
I guess I am going to just focus on her happiness and let the chips fall where they may.
But who am I to judge, I thought. Until a few months ago she said, "I know I could find someone better, but I aint gonna look for him, this is the end of the line for me." I have never expressed my concern over this to her.<br><br><br><br>
And today I get an email that they are getting married. She also told me a while back that she'd want me to be her maid of honor.<br><br><br><br>
How do I feign happiness?<br><br><br><br>
I guess I am going to just focus on her happiness and let the chips fall where they may.