...that is my question.
i have never had an overwhelming desire to be a mother. at times, when around friend's babies and such, i do get "baby fever" but the reality of it scares me off. with that said, i'm 27 and while that's not yet *too* old to reproduce, at some point i'll get there and i'm very scared of missing my window of opportunity and painfully regretting it. my husband has always said he could go either way, in fact years ago when we met he "knew" he didn't want kids but as the years went by i think he's looking forward to it. at any rate, some people tell me when/if i'm ready i'll just "know" and others tell me that you're never really ready, you just have to decide when and do it.
any words of wisdom greatly appreciated. VBers are so wonderful!
i have never had an overwhelming desire to be a mother. at times, when around friend's babies and such, i do get "baby fever" but the reality of it scares me off. with that said, i'm 27 and while that's not yet *too* old to reproduce, at some point i'll get there and i'm very scared of missing my window of opportunity and painfully regretting it. my husband has always said he could go either way, in fact years ago when we met he "knew" he didn't want kids but as the years went by i think he's looking forward to it. at any rate, some people tell me when/if i'm ready i'll just "know" and others tell me that you're never really ready, you just have to decide when and do it.
any words of wisdom greatly appreciated. VBers are so wonderful!
