Hah, Generally im pretty busy and im not much of a bar type person to meet new people, im always single, BUT There was a glimmer of hope for a week or 2! A good buddy of mine sneakily arranged a chance encounter with his sister, as he says she usually dates jackasses, (she's 31, im 27, he's 40). 4 date/ meetups over the period of maybe 2 weeks, which were going absolutely lovely. Get to talking the other day, about how she wants a newer car, is doing some research and asking me questions about certain things, (I have a garage as a side gig/ hobby) and says she wants to put $5k as a down payment. I say that I think that's a great idea, lower monthly note, slightly easier to negotiate a price, etc, ...then she asks to borrow $4k...after 4 dates. I chuckle for a second thinking its a joke while I was cooking dinner (stuffed peppers with smoked tofu :chef
, it wasn't, she gets upset, calls me a few names, storms out and goes home. a few attempted contacts on my part these past few days and nothing. Womp womp
im guessing she knew that I had loaned her brother some money a few months ago when they were having some medical issues with one of the kids, which is a lot different of a situation than wanting to replace a car that is 7yrs newer than my newest car, and assumed I was a good natured bank of sorts.