I dunno...I got divorced back in '96...I have two grown kids....I'm going to be 58 in a couple of days...I haven't been in a relationship since the divorce, and I've pretty much accepted that's the way it's going to be..forever. I've gotten used to my situation. I'm probably going to take heat for this...it seem to me that American women my age are either looking for Mr. Perfect or they've let themselves go to hell...not to mention that they've kinda standoffish...people tell me that women from other cultures aren't like this.