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Thanks to those who have replied, I needed some opinions and yours have really helped me. I am going to delete it now.
 

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Different strokes.<br><br>
I probably wouldn't have told them not to post their provoctive pictures. that sounds passive aggressive. People do and say things that I don't agree with (and tend to find annoying) but it's their decision as long as they are not hurting anybody, I move on to the next thing. Unless it's a topic already being discussed or someone makes an assumption about me or my opinion about things, then I will voice my opinion before moving on.
 

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I think most people would understand that the internet is a public forum and if they're happy to take the risk, then why not?<br><br>
Then again, some people are also pretty dumb.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>AspireToInspire</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2890787"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
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This. It's personal preference and they will have to deal with the consequences of their actions. Personally, I'm a fan of modesty and probably would've done or thought the same as you. You're not repressed IMO, you just have a different set of values. Also, women can be beautiful at any size so I hope you're not too hard on yourself. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/sad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":(">
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Rhys</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2890798"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
This. It's personal preference and they will have to deal with the consequences of their actions. Personally, I'm a fan of modesty and probably would've done or thought the same as you. You're not repressed IMO, you just have a different set of values. Also, women can be beautiful at any size so I hope you're not too hard on yourself. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/sad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":("></div>
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<br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/yes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":yes:"> Well stated, I agree 100%.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Rhys</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2890798"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
This. It's personal preference and they will have to deal with the consequences of their actions. Personally, I'm a fan of modesty and probably would've done or thought the same as you. You're not repressed IMO, you just have a different set of values. Also, women can be beautiful at any size so I hope you're not too hard on yourself. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/sad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":("></div>
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Thank you Rhys, that is very kind of you. Perhaps it is just not a good place for me anymore as I feel that I have to look a certain way. I dont know.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>yally</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2890791"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
I think most people would understand that the internet is a public forum and if they're happy to take the risk, then why not?<br><br>
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That was the thing as well. It was hard to be sure that people did understand the risks.
 

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For the record, me and the other admins are planning on kicking a few people out for that behavior. When I started the forum, it was supposed to be about Matlock episodes <i>only</i>. I dunno why a bunch of perverts decided to join and inject nude photos in the middle of a discussion on the screenplay for season 4 episode 3.
 

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Thank you Rhys, that is very kind of you. Perhaps it is just not a good place for me anymore as I feel that I have to look a certain way. I dont know.</div>
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I think if you are feeling uncomfortable, unwelcome, and frustrated with the place then it might be best to distance yourself from them and leave them. I had to do this with two message boards in the past because they became more harm to me than good. It sucks and it's sad but when a place where I once felt like I had "belonged" turned into a place that made me feel bad about myself and like an outcast then I knew it was time to say good bye.<br><br>
As for the naked pic: Personally I think it's way too risky to put pics like that out there on the web but whatever. They are adults and have a right to do stupid ****.
 

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For the record, me and the other admins are planning on kicking a few people out for that behavior. When I started the forum, it was supposed to be about Matlock episodes <i>only</i>. I dunno why a bunch of perverts decided to join and inject nude photos in the middle of a discussion on the screenplay for season 4 episode 3.</div>
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Matlock perverts?
 

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I think if you are feeling uncomfortable, unwelcome, and frustrated with the place then it might be best to distance yourself from them and leave them. I had to do this with two message boards in the past because they became more harm to me than good. It sucks and it's sad but when a place where I once felt like I had "belonged" turned into a place that made me feel bad about myself and like an outcast then I knew it was time to say good bye.<br><br>
As for the naked pic: Personally I think it's way too risky to put pics like that out there on the web but whatever. They are adults and have a right to do stupid ****.</div>
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Yes thanks for this post. I think perhaps this is what it is coming to, I just dont feel comfortable there any more.
 
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