Whoa, if the wife is understanding I'd talk to her about the kinds of food they keep around. If the wife does the shopping, I'd encourage her to keep a few more fruits and veggies around, even if the husband won't eat them, those kids can't live off ham and mac n' cheese alone.
Problem with an Omni...
Well... it's not my problem... but... just read 
Some of you know that my wife is nanny, and we tried to make that family become vegan (they have several health problems) It was the thread, "I'm going to trick some omnis" Some of you may remember... everything went great, but they flinched...
Well... we discovered that the mom of that family, wants to become vegan... however, she has several self confidence problems.... and she thinks she isn't strong enough... Her husband... is a jerk... well... not that bad, but sometimes seems... Her husband is even weaker than her (I think so, but not sure) and this guy is pushing her down.... So, she is not becoming vegan because her husband is pushing her down... Her husband is 50, and he has high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes type 2 and some more junk on his blood, but he loves to be unhealthy... yeah...
Their diet... they love to purchase bologna... and maybe they spend several days in a row eating just bologna and cheese... and sometimes some peanuts... but they basically eat all crap (add to this several coffees in a day)
When my wife has a chance and the products, she can cook something... They love to purchase the crappiest meat (cheapest one with white fatty things... ugh) and then, they make my wife cook the entire flesh thing... my poor wife has to smell that odor... ugh....
However, rarely, they purchase living food and then my wife can eat and make something to eat... The other day, she made a vegan soup (with several kind of veggies) I'm sure it was delicious and the momma loved it! However, her husband said to my wife, "Do you know the problem of this food?" My wife, confused asked what, then he said, "Well... it's too healthy for me.... I won't eat it" And he just ate some ham with cheese (without even the bread)
Everyday like that... my wife is so bugged...
However, the problem is bigger.... they do have two kids (one year old and one almost three years old) They do have the same diet!!! As they do not have other food than that damn ham... my wife rarely can do something different... also, they usually purchase $0.39 mac'n'cheese from Target... and they feed them by that way.... Also, on afternoons and weekends, they spend all the day feeding this girls with Vitamin D milk (not while my wife is there, as she does not allow them)
When my wife has the chance and a veggie in the fridge (which is rare) she gives it to the girls... the girls eat it very desperately... well they eat desperately any food and they are rarely satisfied... so that means this girls are starving due lack of nutrients... both of them the 1 and 3 years old!!!! The mom is very slim (size 2)... and she has cholesterol too!
If the husband was not the bugging and cheap he is... this entire family would be vegan for sure, and the mom, the kids eating healthy without nutrition disorder (and my wife could eat there as well) Do you guys how to finish with this murderer? The mom wants to step up her health and live... but her husband doesn't'... and he is destroying that family.
Some of you know that my wife is nanny, and we tried to make that family become vegan (they have several health problems) It was the thread, "I'm going to trick some omnis" Some of you may remember... everything went great, but they flinched...
Well... we discovered that the mom of that family, wants to become vegan... however, she has several self confidence problems.... and she thinks she isn't strong enough... Her husband... is a jerk... well... not that bad, but sometimes seems... Her husband is even weaker than her (I think so, but not sure) and this guy is pushing her down.... So, she is not becoming vegan because her husband is pushing her down... Her husband is 50, and he has high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes type 2 and some more junk on his blood, but he loves to be unhealthy... yeah...
Their diet... they love to purchase bologna... and maybe they spend several days in a row eating just bologna and cheese... and sometimes some peanuts... but they basically eat all crap (add to this several coffees in a day)
When my wife has a chance and the products, she can cook something... They love to purchase the crappiest meat (cheapest one with white fatty things... ugh) and then, they make my wife cook the entire flesh thing... my poor wife has to smell that odor... ugh....
However, rarely, they purchase living food and then my wife can eat and make something to eat... The other day, she made a vegan soup (with several kind of veggies) I'm sure it was delicious and the momma loved it! However, her husband said to my wife, "Do you know the problem of this food?" My wife, confused asked what, then he said, "Well... it's too healthy for me.... I won't eat it" And he just ate some ham with cheese (without even the bread)
Everyday like that... my wife is so bugged...
However, the problem is bigger.... they do have two kids (one year old and one almost three years old) They do have the same diet!!! As they do not have other food than that damn ham... my wife rarely can do something different... also, they usually purchase $0.39 mac'n'cheese from Target... and they feed them by that way.... Also, on afternoons and weekends, they spend all the day feeding this girls with Vitamin D milk (not while my wife is there, as she does not allow them)
When my wife has the chance and a veggie in the fridge (which is rare) she gives it to the girls... the girls eat it very desperately... well they eat desperately any food and they are rarely satisfied... so that means this girls are starving due lack of nutrients... both of them the 1 and 3 years old!!!! The mom is very slim (size 2)... and she has cholesterol too!
If the husband was not the bugging and cheap he is... this entire family would be vegan for sure, and the mom, the kids eating healthy without nutrition disorder (and my wife could eat there as well) Do you guys how to finish with this murderer? The mom wants to step up her health and live... but her husband doesn't'... and he is destroying that family.
1 - 17 of 17 Posts
*** I'm going to name my wife per her name: Ana. By that way, will be easier to understand
Thanks for your post guys!
We really appreciate it!
This family is tough and weird... the Wife never does groceries... she sends the husband to do them. Sometimes she request some veggies, and also they ask Ana if they needed anything else. Ana then, increases the list with greens and more healthy stuff... but then, the husband comes back from the Grocery Store with a couple of apples, some bananas and hopefully a lettuce (along with 5-6 packs of ham and cheese)
Rarely, the wife goes to the groceries, when she goes, then she purchase almost everything Ana requested her. But the problem, is that the husband always go to do the groceries... as he is cheap. When they go on vacations, they send Ana to pick up the mail, and sometimes they ask Ana to open a letter and explain to them by phone what it said. Once, they needed to know their Statement of one of their checking accounts, they had around $50,000 (and more on the savings) so it's not about money...
The wife usually gets scared when the doctor says somethings wrong. That should be a good idea... try to convince her to bring the kids to the doctor... that will help.
Ana is frustrated, cuz the wife, even told she wanted to go to Whole Foods, but her husband pushes her down always... and she is not strong enough to make the decision.
We were thinking to speak alone with the wife (well, Ana and the mom, no me as I just fix sometimes their computers) But even that will be hard...
I think and hope is about time.... it's very sad to say this, and I do not wish it, but maybe a stoke will be necessary to teach the husband...
Thanks for your post guys!
We really appreciate it!
This family is tough and weird... the Wife never does groceries... she sends the husband to do them. Sometimes she request some veggies, and also they ask Ana if they needed anything else. Ana then, increases the list with greens and more healthy stuff... but then, the husband comes back from the Grocery Store with a couple of apples, some bananas and hopefully a lettuce (along with 5-6 packs of ham and cheese)
Rarely, the wife goes to the groceries, when she goes, then she purchase almost everything Ana requested her. But the problem, is that the husband always go to do the groceries... as he is cheap. When they go on vacations, they send Ana to pick up the mail, and sometimes they ask Ana to open a letter and explain to them by phone what it said. Once, they needed to know their Statement of one of their checking accounts, they had around $50,000 (and more on the savings) so it's not about money...
The wife usually gets scared when the doctor says somethings wrong. That should be a good idea... try to convince her to bring the kids to the doctor... that will help.
Ana is frustrated, cuz the wife, even told she wanted to go to Whole Foods, but her husband pushes her down always... and she is not strong enough to make the decision.
We were thinking to speak alone with the wife (well, Ana and the mom, no me as I just fix sometimes their computers) But even that will be hard...
I think and hope is about time.... it's very sad to say this, and I do not wish it, but maybe a stoke will be necessary to teach the husband...
I see a couple of questions here:
1. To what extent should parental behavior (whether good or bad) be allowed to affect their children?
2. To what extent do you and your wife have the right or obligation to 'interfere' in your clients' lives?
Regarding #1, the classic example is whether parents should be allowed to smoke around their children. The law says yes; many folks would argue "no".
Regarding #2, I agree with the poster above that you are really constrained to VERY tactful gentle pushes in what you consider to be a more healthy direction. Other folks might argue for a more aggressive posture.
![]()
1. To what extent should parental behavior (whether good or bad) be allowed to affect their children?
2. To what extent do you and your wife have the right or obligation to 'interfere' in your clients' lives?
Regarding #1, the classic example is whether parents should be allowed to smoke around their children. The law says yes; many folks would argue "no".
Regarding #2, I agree with the poster above that you are really constrained to VERY tactful gentle pushes in what you consider to be a more healthy direction. Other folks might argue for a more aggressive posture.
Vitamin D Cow Milk... lactic acid, hormones, and several more stuff. Also, milky cows suffering and... well, you know
![]()
I think I just did not specified.
Runswithfoxes, we are being very tactful, the problem is between them, no about us. My wife never pushed her/him/them. That would be the biggest error.
Runswithfoxes, we are being very tactful, the problem is between them, no about us. My wife never pushed her/him/them. That would be the biggest error.
Well!
Thinks are better now!
The family defenses are weakening!!!!
This three last days, they been vegan! They purchased meat and other crap, but Ana is cooking for them 100% vegan (even desserts!) And Ana hided the meat
![]()
Also, the mom is now confused about the milk, as she compared the nutrition facts of a fortified soy milk and regular cow milk!
Even the husband, tasted some of the food and love it, however, he's defenses still stong.
However, wife defenses are very low. Ana and her, are going to do groceries again, and Ana is going to only cook vegan! The wife said things like, "We must try to be vegans!" Hopefully, pushing them a bit more, the wife will become vegan, and easily, if mom does, the kids as well!
Thinks are better now!
The family defenses are weakening!!!!
This three last days, they been vegan! They purchased meat and other crap, but Ana is cooking for them 100% vegan (even desserts!) And Ana hided the meat
Also, the mom is now confused about the milk, as she compared the nutrition facts of a fortified soy milk and regular cow milk!
Even the husband, tasted some of the food and love it, however, he's defenses still stong.
However, wife defenses are very low. Ana and her, are going to do groceries again, and Ana is going to only cook vegan! The wife said things like, "We must try to be vegans!" Hopefully, pushing them a bit more, the wife will become vegan, and easily, if mom does, the kids as well!
Good job!
![]()
The man sounds like a typical man, what a shame.
Sometimes i feel ashamed to have a penis.
The man sounds like a typical man, what a shame.
Sometimes i feel ashamed to have a penis.
1 - 17 of 17 Posts
