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I know I've heard for years that women go through their peak at 30 and I half believed it.<br><br><br><br>
I say that, because the generations that decided this to be true were "uptight", "one partner for your entire life" type of people. They didn't really explore their sexuality.<br><br><br><br>
In my early twenties, I know I felt rather "Randy" and would have sex with my boyfriend two and three times a day. It almost didn't occur to me that once I hit my thirties I might want it more than that.<br><br><br><br>
I'm 31 and I am so over-charged ready for an encounter and I have no one that I want to do it with. The other day at work, my body was off in fantasy land and I had to go in the bathroom and relieve myself before I had an orgasm in front of my male co-workers. Seriously, I felt like a crazy sex-addict. Are any of you going through this? I wish there was some guy I was even mildly attracted to<br><br><br><br>
There are a few prospects that have been emailing me, but they all live more than 100 miles away.<br><br><br><br>
ROFL.... I just thought of "Marvin" in the movie "The Animal" humping the mailbox cause he was really turned on and couldn't take care of his urge.<br><br><br><br>
Damn my morals. Damn them. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:"> .... meaning that I wouldn't just sleep with someone to satisfy my desire. Trust me I've had guys pursue me and want me in the last two years, but I want more than just good looks and a one night stand.
 

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Well... I'm 22... horny all the time...and although I've never had an orgasm strictly through penetration... I find myself regardless of any situation really really horny and needing to "relieve myself" (pocket rocket, lol) I find myself wanting it... well ok, I admit it... ALL the time... I've thought I may be a nympho...even though it's been SOOO long since I've had sex, but my mind always seems to stray to sex, no matter what situation I'm in. Even when I was getting sex, I still always thought about it. I think people under-estimate how much women want it-regardless of age! Sometimes if I'm sitting there w/others, I have to be sure not to move in my chair, or else...erm yeah, explosion! I wish there were someone here that I could....ok...not gonna finish that sentence! (which, actually there is, but that's another story)W/a friend of mine (who I've known for like 7 years, but lives like 1500 miles away) we ummm... "relieve" ourselves on the phone together. Wow, ok TMI... yeah..... yeah yeah yeah... What was I talking about? Ha... seriously though, I kinda know what ya mean... I still forget why I replied to this though..... really, wtf was I talking about in the first place? .....
 

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I'm guessing you replied, because you wanted to tell me I'm not alone, not a crazy sex-addict and we as women should be proud of our bodies and desires. We should move away from the "1950s" stigmas of sex being impure, wrong and only for a man's pleasure.<br><br><br><br>
Thanks MZC
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>raw jess</strong> <a href="/forum/post/0"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
This is frightening. My, um, solitary habits now, at the age of 24 are scary enough.</div>
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Don't be scared Jess. You probably just hit the nail on the head. I don't have time for that or myself at the moment. I work 9 hours a day and have a 6 hour commute. I'm stressing over trying to sell my home and find a new place to live closer to work. There's always something more pressing for me to do than lay down without going to sleep.<br><br><br><br>
This said, I never have made that any type of priority in my life. I've never been alone this long before either - not that I have slept with every guy I've dated. It's just that when you are involved with someone your attention can be drawn elsewhere ... hooked up in the electricity and romanticism of your interaction. One embarrassing detail is that I honestly didn't know there was anything a woman could do for herself until I was like 20. I remember being bombarded with people's knowledge and acceptance of male needs and desires, but other than being educated about full on sex itself, I was clueless. In fact, I remember the basic gist of what society, educators and parents told the girls was "it's okay for the males. You will have to satisfy them later, but for now (if you're good / pure) you won't be involved in any type of sex."<br><br><br><br>
They have found non-verbal ways to teach us about almost everything else that they'd be uncomfortable talking about face to face. I really think it should be acknowledged and accepted for girls the way it is for boys.
 

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You're not alone. My husband has to beat me off with a stick. ;-) I've definitely gotten more and more "charged" as you say, as I've gotten older. ;-) Here's hoping you find a partner who can help tame the beast in you!! ;-)
 

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I'm guessing you replied, because you wanted to tell me I'm not alone, not a crazy sex-addict and we as women should be proud of our bodies and desires. We should move away from the "1950s" stigmas of sex being impure, wrong and only for a man's pleasure.<br><br><br><br>
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Yes! Exactly! A healthy sexual appetite is normal, and weither you're getting off w/a partner, or alone, it's perfectly fine! Fantasies are also fine. Enjoy your female body (especially the clitoris!-haha) and enjoy it well. There is nothing impure about sex and/or sexual thoughts/or masturbation! Women deserve pleasure, too, w/out feeling like they're impure and/or sluts!
 

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I have no problem with my addiction. I just fear how it's going to be in the future! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:"> Right now it's about 4x a day if it's a day off from work, and at least 1x on a day I do work. And I only work 3 days a week. I'm surprised I haven't broken it yet. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:"><br><br><br><br>
ETA: I discovered this wonderful thing called the orgasm at about the age of 10. Oh yeah.<br><br>
I didn't have my first "real" kiss until 16, and lost my virginity a month before I turned 17.
 

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Its normal to be addicted to sex, I think. At any age.<br><br>
But I do feel like wanting/needing it more than I do now could leave me without time for other things.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/hump.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":hump:">
 

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I'm only talking about masturbation. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:">
 

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I have no problem with my addiction. I just fear how it's going to be in the future! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:"> Right now it's about 4x a day if it's a day off from work, and at least 1x on a day I do work. And I only work 3 days a week. I'm surprised I haven't broken it yet. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:"><br><br><br><br>
ETA: I discovered this wonderful thing called the orgasm at about the age of 10. Oh yeah.<br><br>
I didn't have my first "real" kiss until 16, and lost my virginity a month before I turned 17.</div>
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Yeah, I discovered what an orgasm was at a very young age! Although at the time I just called it "that feeling". BTW-for me had nothing to do w/sexual abuse or anything of the sort (<b>not</b> saying anyone else's was... I for some reason just started "sexually experimenting" at an early age...which actually I've found is common...<b>NOT</b> assuming the reason for anyone else is abuse or <b>anything!</b>)<br><br><br><br>
In reply to what I've quoted... I didn't have my first "real" kiss untill I was 13, lost my virginity about a month after turning 16. Even before that I've had a BIG sexual appetite! I used to feel guilty about it, now I don't though. If I masturbate once a day, or 5 times a day, doesn't make me feel "dirty" or like a nympho at all. I'm just horny and need to get off... nothing wrong w/that at all!!
 

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I was also an early 'experimenter'. I remember getting that 'feeling' when I was about 11 years old. I had my first real kiss at 14 or so and lost my virginity at about 16. I also tend to go through phases when it comes to masturbation. Sometimes it'll be everyday, twice a day, maybe more, and then sometimes I won't touch myself for weeks at a time. It doesn't seem to depend on if I have a partner or not.
 

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Oh dear.<br><br><br><br>
I must pop in to tell you - just wait until you sweet dears hit 40.<br><br><br><br>
For me, 40 was a magic number. I had always thought that I was sexually charged, easily orgasmic, and very, very randy until I hit 40...and then my life changed.<br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>
Oh my goodness, for the better!<br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>
You might find it hard to believe, but you will get better with age - and it is a fair trade-off for a few wrinkles! Yes indeedy!
 

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Its normal to be addicted to sex, I think. At any age.<br></div>
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I would say that to have a healthy interest is normal, being addicted is a different matter. That can cause people a lot of distress.<br><br><br><br><br><br><div class="quote-container"><span>Quote:</span>
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Damn my morals. Damn them. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:"> .... meaning that I wouldn't just sleep with someone to satisfy my desire. Trust me I've had guys pursue me and want me in the last two years, but I want more than just good looks and a one night stand.</div>
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I'm not in the habit of encouraging people to have ONS's for obvious reasons, but in your current situation would it actually be such a morally bad thing to do it as long as you practised safe sex? If you're that hyped up for the sex itself as oppossed to intimacy, maybe it would be good for you. If you can't deal with the thought of that, maybe just get some sex toys (if you haven't already) until you meet a a guy you like <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">
 
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