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...I don't take off my shoes and sneak past her duaghters room. Her duaghter is ALWAYS ALREADY awake. Me sneaking past or not wont wake her up. But apparently when i leave her dughter goes into my girlfriends room strait away. Which is what she does weather im there or not.<br><br>
Am i being unreasonable? Is she? Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do if anything?<br><br>
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Just try taking them off a few times. If her daughter still wakes up then you have proof that your shoes aren't to blame.
 

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She was in her room before i left. Misplaced anger is not fun. Im a dumb ass and dont really know how to do anything about it :-( should i stand up for myself and say hey well shes actually already awake so chillax or should i smile and nod.
 

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It depends..are you a man or a door mat?
 

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You shouldn't smile and nod, I'm just suggesting that you go by her daughter's room with your shoes off to see if she stays in her room. If she still gets up, then your girlfriend can't give you flack for not taking them off.
 

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It sounds like this is not your house. THis is your girlfriend's house and you just stay over there sometimes? Am I right?<br>
When you're at someone else's house, you follow their rules even if you think they're stupid rules. Take your shoes off.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>ElaineV</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930612"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
It sounds like this is not your house. THis is your girlfriend's house and you just stay over there sometimes? Am I right?<br>
When you're at someone else's house, you follow their rules even if you think they're stupid rules. Take your shoes off.</div>
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I don't understand why this is such a problem. Seems so minor to me. If it's your girlfriends house and she wants you to take your shoes off, just do it. If you share the house then I still think you should take the shoes off. Pick your battles.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>ElaineV</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930612"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
It sounds like this is not your house. THis is your girlfriend's house and you just stay over there sometimes? Am I right?<br>
When you're at someone else's house, you follow their rules even if you think they're stupid rules. Take your shoes off.</div>
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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>SomebodyElse</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930620"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Exactly.</div>
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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Vancityveggie</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930749"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
I don't understand why this is such a problem. Seems so minor to me. If it's your girlfriends house and she wants you to take your shoes off, just do it. If you share the house then I still think you should take the shoes off. Pick your battles.</div>
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Yep.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Kindred</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930554"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Am i being unreasonable?</div>
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<div class="quote-block">Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do if anything?</div>
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Take off your shoes. It's, what, like 15 seconds of your time? Who cares.
 

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It takes people 15 seconds to take their shoes off? Damn. What do people wear, hooker boots that have to be unlaced from thigh to ankle?
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>danakscully64</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930884"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
It takes people 15 seconds to take their shoes off? Damn. What do people wear, hooker boots that have to be unlaced from thigh to ankle?</div>
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So,, you have met me?
 

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Why don't you just not put on your shoes til you're past her daughter's room? What is the issue here?
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>danakscully64</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930884"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
It takes people 15 seconds to take their shoes off? Damn. What do people wear, hooker boots that have to be unlaced from thigh to ankle?</div>
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I'm wearing vegan shoes where the shoelaces are inside a Rubic's cube which I have to solve every time in order to untie them.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Sevenseas</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930993"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
I'm wearing vegan shoes where the shoelaces are inside a Rubic's cube which I have to solve every time in order to untie them.</div>
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****ing sanctimonious vegans! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/veganpolice.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":notvegan:">
 

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That's me <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/yes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":yes:">
 

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I also second that if it's her house, you should do what she asks as long as it's reasonable - which this is. I'd just take off my shoes and keep the peace <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)"> Also - this is the second thread you've made about problems with your girlfriend - perhaps this isn't really about shoes?
 

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Seven! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/kiss.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":kiss:"><div class="quote-container"><span>Quote:</span>
<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Identity_thief</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2931003"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Also - this is the second thread you've made about problems with your girlfriend - perhaps this isn't really about shoes?</div>
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Only the second? Sure about that? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/wink3.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=";)">
 

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I agree that you should just take your shoes off. Like someone else said, if you take off your shoes, and she still wakes up, you'll know that isn't the problem. It's such a minor thing. Why not just do it?<br><br><div class="quote-container"><span>Quote:</span>
<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>danakscully64</strong> <a href="/forum/post/2930884"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
It takes people 15 seconds to take their shoes off? Damn. What do people wear, hooker boots that have to be unlaced from thigh to ankle?</div>
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I'm wearing vegan shoes where the shoelaces are inside a Rubic's cube which I have to solve every time in order to untie them.</div>
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I can't grasp this at all, I've never lived in a place where you didn't take your shoes off at the door and put them back on at the door.<br><br>
But I echo what the others have said, just take the darn shoes off.
 
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