ok him is my male parent, currently not respecting him back by calling him "dad"
anyway yesterday was the day i finally got tired of him. see for years, like 8 or 9 i have been nicely asking him and my youngest brother to not talk about their hunting trips and skinning their hunts around me. they never seemed to listen and i never once in all those years lectured them on hunting even though i am 100% against it. i was showing what i thought was respect. well this past weekend was the second in a row he and my bro had gone this month and this time it was non stop talk, like literally its all they ever talked about. well i was talking to my mom when she got home from work and they but in with some stupid crap about this "golden hunting spot they found and how they cant wait to use it and get some stuff there" etc and i was really mad but i nicely asked when are you gonna stop talking about this around me? i havent heard it like two weeks straight and there is more to talk about. well he got mad and told me it was his house and he will say whatever he damn well wants. so then mom tried sticking up for me by saying that i deserve respect too and its not that hard to talk about it elsewhere when i am not around. then he chewed her out for "turning on him" so i got mad, stormed off yelling about how i am sick of hearing about people kill animals for fun and i took a drive. when i came back mom had turned on me, like she always does.... she was on my case and started using the its HIS house line. like first off, they both pay so its not just his and second, i thought we were a family so it should be our home. its not a home. thats for sure. so anyway needeless to say no one will talk to me until i appologize for my unreasoable childish behavior. i am wondering seeing as none of you actually know us what do you think? who was wrong? i am feeling like major **** right now since i have no one who gets why i am so upset and i am not going to appologize this time. he can first for once. i always say sorry even when it isnt my fault. it isnt just abotu the hunting, yes thats why i was angry cuz i was tired of it but its about the respect factor and how my mom turned on me. i just dont know what to do, i try stickin up for myself like they always tell me to do and then it blows up in my face. thank God i have dogs and a cat to talk to cuz no one else even wants to be in the same room as me right now.
anyway yesterday was the day i finally got tired of him. see for years, like 8 or 9 i have been nicely asking him and my youngest brother to not talk about their hunting trips and skinning their hunts around me. they never seemed to listen and i never once in all those years lectured them on hunting even though i am 100% against it. i was showing what i thought was respect. well this past weekend was the second in a row he and my bro had gone this month and this time it was non stop talk, like literally its all they ever talked about. well i was talking to my mom when she got home from work and they but in with some stupid crap about this "golden hunting spot they found and how they cant wait to use it and get some stuff there" etc and i was really mad but i nicely asked when are you gonna stop talking about this around me? i havent heard it like two weeks straight and there is more to talk about. well he got mad and told me it was his house and he will say whatever he damn well wants. so then mom tried sticking up for me by saying that i deserve respect too and its not that hard to talk about it elsewhere when i am not around. then he chewed her out for "turning on him" so i got mad, stormed off yelling about how i am sick of hearing about people kill animals for fun and i took a drive. when i came back mom had turned on me, like she always does.... she was on my case and started using the its HIS house line. like first off, they both pay so its not just his and second, i thought we were a family so it should be our home. its not a home. thats for sure. so anyway needeless to say no one will talk to me until i appologize for my unreasoable childish behavior. i am wondering seeing as none of you actually know us what do you think? who was wrong? i am feeling like major **** right now since i have no one who gets why i am so upset and i am not going to appologize this time. he can first for once. i always say sorry even when it isnt my fault. it isnt just abotu the hunting, yes thats why i was angry cuz i was tired of it but its about the respect factor and how my mom turned on me. i just dont know what to do, i try stickin up for myself like they always tell me to do and then it blows up in my face. thank God i have dogs and a cat to talk to cuz no one else even wants to be in the same room as me right now.