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Fifteen years ago I had a falling out with a relative. I contacted her a couple times, and when she made no effort to patch the relationship, I moved on with my life.

After 3 years I moved a couple times and she didn't know where I was (she would have been able to contact me for 3 years after the fight). Last night she called me. She says she hired a private investigator and spent a bit of money to find me.

She says she's having legal problems with another relative, and seems to need me to help her set some things straight. She says she has some things from another relative who passed away that she wants to give me.

I'm so totally confused. I don't know if I want to let this person back in my life. She caused me a lot of pain, and I don't trust her. But OTOH, fifteen years, people change.

Has anybody ever had a person from your past contact you? What did you do? How did you decide whether to talk with them again?
 

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Thanks for your responses. If I'm a little quiet on this thread, it's because it hurts a bit to talk about it.
 
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