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Firstly, thank you for all the supportive posts. They really helped <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)"><br><br>
It was good to have all the different perspectives.<br><br><br><br>
Well, the so called "worst" happened... my ex likes someone else...<br><br>
And I feel fine!!!!<br><br>
I also like someone new and my ex is fine about it!<br><br>
In fact, we've been like best friends..<br><br>
We're not jealous, not bitter or awkward. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/dancingbanana.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":nana:"><br><br>
In fact, we've both been kind of playing cupid for each other.<br><br>
It was totally the right thing for us to split, and ultimately, I feel it has saved our friendship.<br><br>
I saw him make a move on someone at the weekend...and I was waiting for some kind of negative feeling to kick in, but it didn't! I just felt like I do if it is a "normal" friend whose eyeing someone up - pleased and excited for them!<br><br><br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/grin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":D"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/broccoli.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":bobo:"><br><br><br><br>
I feel so relieved!!<br><br><br><br>
Only down side is that I've already messed up with this new guy because I had a moment of self doubt and did my "ha...i need no man" act and ended up upsetting him a bit. whoops <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)"><br><br><br><br>
All in all, I am so much happier than I was a month ago, and better off.<br><br>
I've traded a dead, and damaging relationship with my ex for a fullfilling friendship where we can support each other and not be stressed about the fact that we both knew the end was nigh!<br><br><br><br>
Thanks everyone!<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":hug:"> to all.
 

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Congratulations!<br><br><br><br>
I passed down my dead and failed relationship a bit ago, but my ex didn't take it as well as yours [maybe because he was going to propose ... he apparently didn't realize how bad off we were ... "love" blinds us like that].<br><br><br><br>
I am very glad you were able to work things out and save your friendship.
 
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