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A sequel to my earlier problem.
So, my friend "broke up" with me. Has anyone else here had any friend break ups? Feel free to share.
This morning at school I texted her asking if she knew where all our classmates are (turned out I went to school 2 hours too early lol). I didn't know that she wasn't at school because she was supposed to go to practical training later that day. She got really mad because my text message woke her up. I said I'm sorry but she didn't care. I was tired of getting constantly barked at and being on my toes all the time so I got a little mad too and said that maybe she should have put the phone on vibrate. She said that I'm too sensitive and whiny (what, me?), and that she hates the way I talk. She also said that I have no personality. That came out of nowhere. I have tried to be nice and pleasant around her so she wouldn't get mad at me all the time. There even was a time when she was giving me silent treatment for a week for no reason, and I acted like I didn't care because I didn't want to encourage her. I actually didn't care. I've been too nice to her, and I see that now. She also said she didn't want me to participate in our group projects, but apparently she hadn't had courage to tell me in person. We are halfway through 3 projects and now she tells me.
After many text messages her last one said: "I'm so glad that I only have to see you for 1 week before school ends because I can't take this anymore. We are no longer friends." Yeah, over a text message. As if it already wasn't stupid enough. I was angry enough to reply "yay" which I kinda regret. I thought we would have tried to work it out because it's a little dumb to break up because of one rather ridiculous fight.
Frankly, I feel relieved. If she wouldn't have said it, I would have. Sooner or later. I skipped a few classes, came home and cried. We have been friends for 1 and a half year. The last six months haven't been so great and there has been many fights, so I should feel good because she was a real buttwipe. But I'm really sad and keep thinking about all the good times we had. At first I was furious and tried to come up with some insult, but when I calmed down I started to feel bad. I was about to call her and say I'm sorry but I'm glad that I didn't do it. This time I've really had it, and I won't be the one who comes crawling back.
Anyway, any tips? This is new for me since I have never had any break ups. Is there something I could do to feel better? I have a feeling that there is going to be another week of silent treatment.
So, my friend "broke up" with me. Has anyone else here had any friend break ups? Feel free to share.
This morning at school I texted her asking if she knew where all our classmates are (turned out I went to school 2 hours too early lol). I didn't know that she wasn't at school because she was supposed to go to practical training later that day. She got really mad because my text message woke her up. I said I'm sorry but she didn't care. I was tired of getting constantly barked at and being on my toes all the time so I got a little mad too and said that maybe she should have put the phone on vibrate. She said that I'm too sensitive and whiny (what, me?), and that she hates the way I talk. She also said that I have no personality. That came out of nowhere. I have tried to be nice and pleasant around her so she wouldn't get mad at me all the time. There even was a time when she was giving me silent treatment for a week for no reason, and I acted like I didn't care because I didn't want to encourage her. I actually didn't care. I've been too nice to her, and I see that now. She also said she didn't want me to participate in our group projects, but apparently she hadn't had courage to tell me in person. We are halfway through 3 projects and now she tells me.
After many text messages her last one said: "I'm so glad that I only have to see you for 1 week before school ends because I can't take this anymore. We are no longer friends." Yeah, over a text message. As if it already wasn't stupid enough. I was angry enough to reply "yay" which I kinda regret. I thought we would have tried to work it out because it's a little dumb to break up because of one rather ridiculous fight.
Frankly, I feel relieved. If she wouldn't have said it, I would have. Sooner or later. I skipped a few classes, came home and cried. We have been friends for 1 and a half year. The last six months haven't been so great and there has been many fights, so I should feel good because she was a real buttwipe. But I'm really sad and keep thinking about all the good times we had. At first I was furious and tried to come up with some insult, but when I calmed down I started to feel bad. I was about to call her and say I'm sorry but I'm glad that I didn't do it. This time I've really had it, and I won't be the one who comes crawling back.
Anyway, any tips? This is new for me since I have never had any break ups. Is there something I could do to feel better? I have a feeling that there is going to be another week of silent treatment.