Hi Brad,
Both your and your wife need to see your doctor immediately. Unless all this weight is coming from muscle, your health is in serious danger. A low fat vegan diet is effective for weight loss and health improvement, as you stated.
You and your wife both must make these changes, or you won't succeed in making them. When one spouse is trying to overcome an addiction to unhealthy food, they will not succeed if the other spouse is continuing to keep these foods around the house.
Your doctor should refer you to a weight loss specialist. Your insurance will probably cover this, because your current weight puts you at serious risk for diabetes, heart disease, and hypertension.
A little story:
My previous boss weighed 330 pounds at age 60. He had diabetes, and his doctors told him that his feet would likely need to be amputated. He went in for lap-band surgery, he lost 100 pounds, and almost all of his health problems went away. However, he then retired to Thailand, away from his support network of friends and doctors. He gained all the weight back, ultimately weighing 400 pounds. He died at age 64. Moral of the story - almost nobody can beat addiction alone.
Both your and your wife need to see your doctor immediately. Unless all this weight is coming from muscle, your health is in serious danger. A low fat vegan diet is effective for weight loss and health improvement, as you stated.
You and your wife both must make these changes, or you won't succeed in making them. When one spouse is trying to overcome an addiction to unhealthy food, they will not succeed if the other spouse is continuing to keep these foods around the house.
Your doctor should refer you to a weight loss specialist. Your insurance will probably cover this, because your current weight puts you at serious risk for diabetes, heart disease, and hypertension.
A little story:
My previous boss weighed 330 pounds at age 60. He had diabetes, and his doctors told him that his feet would likely need to be amputated. He went in for lap-band surgery, he lost 100 pounds, and almost all of his health problems went away. However, he then retired to Thailand, away from his support network of friends and doctors. He gained all the weight back, ultimately weighing 400 pounds. He died at age 64. Moral of the story - almost nobody can beat addiction alone.