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I'll have been with my girlfriend two months Tuesday, and we've decided that it's finally time to come out to our families. Somehow we've chosen Monday as the "big day," heh.

I love her more than anything in the whole world. I'm really scared about not being able to be alone with her (not even to fool around... just to be...) or even see her anymore.

She lives two hours from me, I moved from the same town about two and a half years ago, but she is my debate partner and we see each other frequently, now. I somehow think that this will become less frequent, especially since sleeping in the same place is most likely going to become disallowed.

I'm really scared about how my family is going to react, and how things are going to be different, and I could really use some encouragement.
 

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Pressure... yeah, quite a lot. But I think I need that pressure or it may never happen. She was saying "I think by summer I'll have to," and I said "When you do, I will," because summer felt very far off and safe.

Except now somebody's started making up rumors about us kissing at a school dance (this didn't actually happen) that both of her little brothers have heard, and it's getting to be time. She said I didn't have to, but, as she said, "I've kept this from you for two months" is better than six [or more].

I don't think it'll be too bad. They won't be mad... I think my mom might cry. My dad'll go quiet and probably won't say much. But it's still scary... always the degree of uncertainty.
 

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Thank you all!

Heh, so much lost sleep for nothing ><

My parents were all "Meh, whatever, we love you anyways." Which is weird because my mom was saying "I don't pity her mother. That'd be so tough... terrible thing" about my friend. *shrugs*

Apparently they like her more than my last boyfriend ^^ [Who was sweet but rather unmotivated.]

My girlfriend, on the other hand, told her parents that she had something to say, and they quite literally pulled her aside before she could say anything and said "We know, we know who with, no we don't think it's a good idea for you to come out now. Don't tell your brothers." I shrug.

Thank you all... It's nice to be able to breathe again.
 
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