that's what my husband told me the other night. ouch. he said he wants to work things out because he thinks he can fall in love with me again, but i just don't see how that works. how can you predict something like that? what am i supposed to do? sit around and wait for him to fall, constantly asking myself, "is he in love with me now? how about now?" at what point will he say, "ya know, i just don't think it's going to work"?? he said he's felt this way for months. is it fair to ask me to sit around and wait, hoping that he'll be in love with me eventually, when it's way more likely that it's just over and he can't accept it? is it better to just get out now before i get any more hurt? we haven't been intimate (physically or emotionally) in months. i'm really confused, and i guess i need some support/advice. what would you do??