I'm in the same boat. What I would suggest is:<br><br><br><br>
1. Go beyond just finding something you enjoy-- find something you can make your new hobby, that you want to get good at, and you can make it your personal goal to make progress in how good you are at that sport or activity. Of course, it needs to be something you enjoy doing. It could be anything from signing up with a neighborhood volleyball league, to cycling, to kayaking, to jogging.<br><br><br><br>
I'm considering taking up rock climbing.<br><br><br><br>
2. Find an exercise buddy. A really good exercise buddy is a dog, at least if your exercise is walking, jogging, or cycling. Dogs are always ready to go, won't let you "forget," and won't agree that today is a good day to relax instead. Now, I'm not suggesting that you get a dog solely for this purpose, but if you have a dog, you've already got the best exercise partner you could ask for. Signing up for some sort of league sport would probably have the same effect. You'll meet people who are also into that sport, and probably wind up making friends with some of them.<br><br><br><br>
If I do take up rock climbing, I'll have a buddy in Mr. Tess, who is already into rock climbing and really wants me to get into it, too.<br><br><br><br>
3. Sign up for classes at your gym. Whether it's step, spinning, jazzercise, yoga, pilates, whatever, put something on your schedule that says, "I have to be there at time X, and people are expecting me." Make that class part of your weekly routine.<br><br><br><br>
I do pilates and yoga weekly at a studio about 5 minutes from my house, and I don't always feel like going, but I'm always glad I did afterward.<br><br><br><br>
The other thing I do is try to walk every day, for at least 20-30 minutes, in addition to whatever else I'm doing.<br><br><br><br>
ETA: ^^^ Racquet ball is SO. MUCH. FUN. I mean, you get to whack a little rubber ball silly around a room for 45 minutes. What could be better stress relief? My only problem is I hate keeping score. Well, that and I have no gym membership, so no place to play.