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i always just answer 'you just know<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":love:"> ' but lately ive found myself questioning this because of things happening and im just wondering if the things im questioning it over even matter, y'know? im probably reading too much into stupid things.<br><br><br><br>
so do tell<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/pibo.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":pibo:">
 

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Try not to waste your time worrying about how other people feel about you. Focus on your feelings and trust your instincts.
 

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There are many ways to define what love is, but I usually go with when you make sacrifices for someone but it doesn't really feel like a sacrifice because you are happy to do it for them, I think that is love.
 

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I think they make an effort. It also depends on "who" you mean. Someone who makes absolutely no effort to be with you and share their love are next to worthless anyway. A person who lays in bed dreaming of another does not neasessarily love them because they make no effort to meet and understand the real you. This is like those people who will not allow the loved one to change-- they are in love with an image, or the fulfillment of a needed role in their "cosmos" and when that role shifts, their world crumbles.
 

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wow such wise answers.<br><br>
the trust one IS important, i just get nervous when i just 'trust' because..what if im wrong? y'know? but i guess thats life! its a risk :p
 

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People who love you feed you, they nourish you body \\, mind and Spirit <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/hungry.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":hungry:"><br><br><br><br>
People who love you rejoice when they see you succeed (and offer support and help along the way) <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/carrot.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":vebo:"><br><br><br><br>
People who love you listen and talk when you need to hear them <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/thumbsup.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":up:"><br><br><br><br>
People who love you accept you as you are and assist you in becoming more wonderful <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smitten.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":smitten:"><br><br><br><br>
People who love you love themselves too <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":love:"><br><br><br><br>
(And everything else that has been said above before me )
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>kaileikehe</strong> <a href="/forum/post/0"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Then I guess I am not loved by whom I thought did love me.<br><br>
What a shame.</div>
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Neither of my parents loved me. My whole family really is only so-so. Love is a rare gift. Some people never know it, show it, or could care less.<br><br><br><br>
The best advice ever given to me was to be the sort of person I would want to be attracted to me.
 

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^^ When you can't be sure what someone is really thinking, their actions will speak for them.
 

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trust.. and listen to what your heart says-the heart never lies... observe your feelings when that person is ther eand when that person is absent.. thats where the answer lies....
 
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