I just had a horrible fight with my husband. We've been married 8 months. I became vegetarian in january and it hasn't been a problem. We agreed I wouldn't trick him into eating tofu and he wouldn't comment on what I was eating. It's worked well so far. My parents have been very good about it too. Well I hadn't said anything to his parents. They are definitely meat and potato country people. Well he brought it up with them and they seemed fine with it. Today we were going to their place. They were having steak on the bbq and I offered to make a veggie burger. I wasn't going to make a big deal about it. He and his brother joked a bit about the poor soy bean suffering. Then just now, he laid into me about my beliefs about animals suffering and whether the soy bean also suffers. It felt just horrible. I tried to provide arguments for him why we don't need to eat meat but he wouldn't listen. I just left the room in tears. I am so upset.