Well, i for one really get pissed off when people assume because someone is disabled they cannot do anything for themselves, its rather demeaning if you ask me. I have worked with people who are severely physically disabled who did the same job as i as well as i did. I would venture to say that the greatest pitfall of disabled people in society are people who think disabled people cannot do anything for themselves.
DeeYahMK: Im sorry if im giving the impression to anyone you are an *******, as i wasn't meaning to. On the other hand if you had let me know just how disabled he really is then that might shown he would have trouble doing anything for himself, but even then i highly doubt he would be completely incapable of doing things for himself if he had inner strength to find ways to do things for himelf.