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I wasn't sure whether to put this thread here or not, but I figure who better to help a teenager figure out how a teenager thinks than teenagers? LOL, sorry if that made no sense. Anyway, I have no idea how guys' minds work and I need help! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/sweatdrop.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":sweat:"><br><br>
Anyway, any guys out there, what should a girl do to get you to notice/like her without seeming slutty? What is something you absolutely love about us and something you hate about us (and I mean flirting-wise)...and...I dunno, just post "flirting tips" lol, cause I need them. But I would love it if a guy could answer since a girl obviously doesnt know how guys think. And guys, you can ask the girls questions too.<br><br><br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":love:">
 

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grr. Wish a guy liked me...<br><br><br><br>
One thing you should not do (which is bad even from my female perspective)<br><br>
If a guy that likes you and has one of your friends numbers, tell that friend that she is NOT allowed to say you are going out with someone else! I once had a major potential love life, and 3 different friends ruined it with 3 different guys. Now, I am alone...<br><br><br><br>
Yeah, tips would be nice. How about advice on how not to blush when a guy you really like comes up to you? It's a problem I tend to have.<br><br><br><br>
Smile and laugh, you say?
 

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I'm personally a fan of girls that don't have a problem talking, I'm not saying mindless garbage either. Being cute is great and all but if you're dumb as a brick you aren't going to be too interesting. Be confident and proud in who you are, flaws and all. Unless you're seriously out of your mind, then you might want to wait a month or two to spring that up on him.<br><br>
I have to agree with the smile and laughing advice. It's no fun talking to someone who seems bitter and not happy for you to be around.<br><br>
As for the blushing thing. I never saw a problem with that. I find that stuff cute but if you don't want to blush try temporarily demeaning the guy in your mind. Think to yourself "Oh yeah he's not that great." It probably won't work unless you can temporarily convince yourself that. In fact it probably won't work at all but it makes sense to me.<br><br>
Don't take anything I say for gospel though. I'm a bit eccentric and I don't want a horde of VB girls coming after me because it doesn't relate to the guys in their area.
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>writetheway</strong> <a href="/forum/post/0"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Laugh. Act like yourself. Smile. And wait...</div>
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Perfect.<br><br><br><br>
This is probably the best advice that you'll find.
 

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Thanks guys, sounds like I'm doing good then, lol. Things are going very well indeed, hahaha, but this is my first time that I really set out to make a guy like me as much as I like him <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/blush.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":eek:"><br><br>
Usually I just think they're cute and never speak to them, but with this one I can really talk to him and flirt and stuff, YAY<br><br>
Keep the suggestions coming!
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Gredge</strong> <a href="/forum/post/0"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br><br>
Don't take anything I say for gospel though. I'm a bit eccentric and I don't want a horde of VB girls coming after me because it doesn't relate to the guys in their area.</div>
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Yes, I think we'll all attack you for telling us to be proud of who we are. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/grin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":D"><br><br><br><br>
And don't worry, we always think about how dumb you boys are. (just kidding!)<br><br><br><br>
...maybe.<br><br><br><br>
oh, but best of luck moonjumper! ^^
 

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grr. Wish a guy liked me...<br><br><br><br>
One thing you should not do (which is bad even from my female perspective)<br><br>
If a guy that likes you and has one of your friends numbers, tell that friend that she is NOT allowed to say you are going out with someone else! I once had a major potential love life, and 3 different friends ruined it with 3 different guys. Now, I am alone...<br><br><br><br>
Yeah, tips would be nice. How about advice on how not to blush when a guy you really like comes up to you? It's a problem I tend to have.<br><br><br><br>
Smile and laugh, you say?</div>
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some guys think blushing is cute.<br><br>
thats what all my ex's/crushes told me anyway
 

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Few years out of being a teenager now, but if the girl seems stupid then she won't interest me. If she seems intelligent then she'll catch my attention.<br><br><br><br>
That's probably not much help though.
 

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some guys think blushing is cute.<br><br>
thats what all my ex's/crushes told me anyway</div>
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Really? Aww, thats so sweet...
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>Gredge</strong> <a href="/forum/post/0"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style=""></a><br><br>
Be confident and proud in who you are, flaws and all. Unless you're seriously out of your mind, then you might want to wait a month or two to spring that up on him.</div>
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LOL, so ya...Ill wait a while before I let him know about that one! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/laugh.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":lol:"><br><br>
Thanks for the suggestions...and its a relief to know blushing might be considered "cute"...I usually dont blush but when i do it is at random times and I blush from my ears to my arms, lol...like I said, doesnt happen too often
 

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MoonJumper, how are the things going? We're all curious. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)">
 

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I'm doing the same at the moment...the guy I like is so sweet, it's the first time I've met a single guy I've actually had loads in common with (I'm hoping he's veg*n as well)...he's 23, which might seem a little old as this is the teen forum...I'm 17, 18 in less than a month. But my mum totally approves - she introduced me to him because she knows the kind of guys I like! Ooh he's so yummy...<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/grin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":D"><br><br><br><br>
He came up to talk to me at this art thing I was at, meaning he recognised me from ages before, so it seems like a good sign...<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/carrot.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":vebo:"><br><br><br><br>
Arg I just realised if he is veg*n he might be on this board...he won't be reading the teen forum though so it's OK! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/angel.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":angel:">
 
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