Do you use the buddy system when you and your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/significant other shower or bathe, or do you take turns? Mr. Tess and I share the shower all the time. We never even really discussed it-- it's just the way it is. We've been showering together so long it feels weird to be in the shower by myself. (And no, I'm not talking about anything particularly, err, steamy here, just regular bathing! Although I guess if you're into steamy showers, more shower to ya.) When we were looking for a house, I mentioned in the realtor's presence that the shower in one of the houses we looked at wasn't nearly big enough for both of us, and she seemed kind of freaked out by it. Is this normal to you, or weird?