So im dating this girl, who i adore, i care about her more then any other girl i've ever met. But thats not the issue.. She has some severe issues with drugs... Now, pot which she smokes offten, i can deal with. No big deal to me. But she also uses cocaine on a rather regular basis. And she lies to me about it, which is rather painful.
I can always tell when shes high, even when she tries to hide it from me. And when she is on something (other then pot or alcohol which well.. i've got no issues with) I essentialy become very distant, thus inspiring being frequently asked "whats wrong" well, clearly something is wrong, but as is typical with guys i simply respond "noting, dont worry about it"
Now, i know i need to confront her about this. But i also dont want to have it become hostile becaue i know it will only inspire her to go on a coke binge, which i really dont want. And the fact that she lies to me about it is to say the least, upseting. And i know she doesnt lie to me about anything else. Were usualy completely honest, which is what comes along with being best friends.
This has just been eating me up inside, and well, really i've got noone to talk to about this. So i figgure just throwing it out there for the world, and maybe getting a response or 2 that is usefull, would help a bit. Because at the moment, im going insaine.
And just throwing this out there, but i do care about her enough to lose her, if it helps to take care of this issue. I'd be willing to not have her in my life, if i knew that she was going to be clean.
I've had drugs tear a relationship apart on me before because i didnt take any action, and i will not let that happen to me again..
I can always tell when shes high, even when she tries to hide it from me. And when she is on something (other then pot or alcohol which well.. i've got no issues with) I essentialy become very distant, thus inspiring being frequently asked "whats wrong" well, clearly something is wrong, but as is typical with guys i simply respond "noting, dont worry about it"
Now, i know i need to confront her about this. But i also dont want to have it become hostile becaue i know it will only inspire her to go on a coke binge, which i really dont want. And the fact that she lies to me about it is to say the least, upseting. And i know she doesnt lie to me about anything else. Were usualy completely honest, which is what comes along with being best friends.
This has just been eating me up inside, and well, really i've got noone to talk to about this. So i figgure just throwing it out there for the world, and maybe getting a response or 2 that is usefull, would help a bit. Because at the moment, im going insaine.
And just throwing this out there, but i do care about her enough to lose her, if it helps to take care of this issue. I'd be willing to not have her in my life, if i knew that she was going to be clean.
I've had drugs tear a relationship apart on me before because i didnt take any action, and i will not let that happen to me again..