A month ago I got together with a friend I haven't seen in eight years. He has some problems, so I felt compelled to initially talk with him. We got together twice and the last time I saw him I told him to call me if he wanted to talk or do something again. Well I haven't heard from him in a month. I'm considering calling him but I don't want to bother him since it seems as though he doesn't have any interest in talking with me. To complicate the situation, I have a crush on him but I also have a boyfriend. I really like this guy as a person but am unsure if it would be smart to continue a friendship if I like him more than a friend while having a boyfriend. I don't want to give up on him, I'd like to give him one last chance because he's a great person he just has issues. What should I do?