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Hi I didnt see any boards on here for the bi vegans out there or many for meeting anyone on here I am not sure if anyone is intersted in that but I thought I would start a topic for all of us out there who are looking for the opposite sex or a little bit of both feel free to replys on here and all, I am new to the site so I dont know if this will offend anyone and if it does I am sorry...<br><br>
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Hi vanilla, even though i have thought of myself as a lesbian for years, i am beginning to think i am really bi...must be the mellowing over forty thing<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/tongue3.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":p"><br><br><br><br>
anyway, welcome.
 

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Yes I am bisexual too it just seems like there were no chats that we can chat together or maybe meet someone not hinting because I am not looking what I am looking for is people to chat with that share the same thoughts that I do!
 

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I'm a mostly gay mostly vegan.<br><br><br><br>
More about me at <a href="http://gayvegan.com" target="_blank">gayvegan.com</a>
 

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I seem to be becoming more of a lesbian every day. It's the pubescent change they forgot to mention in sex ed.
 

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I went through that too Bloodysunset. That time of your life is absolutely filled with a flurry of emotions and emotionally situations. As I grew older I realized that I'm not bi but rather a very affectionate being (regardless of gender).
 

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I'm a straight female, but... *points to title* <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/naughty.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":naughty:"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/grin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":D"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/tongue3.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":p">
 

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I am glad so many people did respond here its cool that we all can chat and people on here arent afraid of who they really are I mean some chat boards ive been on people like and pretend to be someone that they arent. Its annoying. I am glad you all responded and I am looking forward to chatting with you all!!
 

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I don't choose to label myself, but I am attracted to both females and males. I used to be very proud of calling myself "bi", but now I just feel that it sticks me in yet another category. If I fall in love with a boy, I do. If I fall in love with a girl, I do. That's just how it goes. Right now, I'm in love with the most wonderful boy ever. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":love:"> I think as I got older it got less about being able to identify myself with a particular group and more about responding to my true feelings.
 

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Wouldn't "looking for the opposite sex" include heterosexuals too? Just askin'. Oh, and welcome to VB! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/grin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":D"><br><br><br><br>
I am the World's Worst Lesbian. I love women but most of friends are guys and I've never even kissed a girl. Most straight women have more experience than I do. I hate being shy.
 

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im a straight female but i have a question to ask you guys that are bi or gay or well anybody that can help me<br><br>
one of my friends sez she wants to be bi but sez it very jokingly like shes like haha i wish i cud be bi hahaha or one day maybe ill be bi .. ya rite hahahaha im thinking maybe she is bi but is to afriad to striaght out tell me ? wut do you guys think ? shud i ask her about it ?
 

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It depends on the friend and your relationship with her, but most likely it wouldn't be a good idea to ask her straight out (no pun intended). If she was bi, it would probably work out just fine, but she still might take it like you're accusing her or something. If she's straight, she could really be offended. In my opinion, the best thing to do is maybe make sure she knows you're comfortable with it (I'm assuming you are). Maybe next time the topic comes up, say something like "I really don't understand why people have such a problem about it, I mean, if one of my friends was bi or something, I wouldn't mind in the slightest, I'd just be glad they felt comfortable telling me." And remember, she may not really know if she is or not, or she may not feel comfortable letting anyone know yet, it might not be about whether she trusts *you* or not.
 

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chances are she suspects she might be bisexual, but is uncertain how she or other people will react to that... so she makes it a joke for now, to see how it feels and to see how people react... she may try exploring that part of herself in the near future...
 

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fwiw... I'm a hardcore, standing tall, proud gay man. I haven't seen the inside of a closet in 17 years. I defy every stereotype, (except the one about gay men being promiscuous...<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/pimp.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":tame:"> oh. and I do have the interior design gene... and the musical theatre gene... <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/images/smilies/smiley.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title=":)"> )<br><br><br><br>
I love that I can be myself in my community without fear. It's nice to kiss and cuddle at the movie theatre!
 

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Vegankat-- you are right you do not need to label yourself and I understand where you are coming from completly. I know lots of people who have strong feelings against labeling I mean you cant choose in anyway shape or form who you fall for its all in your heart. I mean I have been in love with a girl and it ended and now I am with a guy(close to ending he likes my attraction to women more then me I belive but he will never know what it is like) but I mean I agree with you totaly and I am glad you have strong opinions...:)
 
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