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My s.o is a omni, and for the first half of our relationship (its been two years) i was too. While he is generally respectful its pretty damm difficult.
We spoke the other night about ending it and one of his reasons for wanting to was my veganism i also agreed. As you know veganism is a lifestyle change epesically for me. I know i've changed majorally and this is probably part of the prob too.
He's excellent in that he doesn't eat in front of me and is basically vegan when i'm with him.
The problem is living together, i don't want to live with a meat eater again, i know some people are fine with it but i just can't handle the smell of meat especially when its cooking. I realise that he will continue to be a meat eater but what about no meat in house rules, has anyone done this?
Even if he agrees to such a thing i think he will end up resenting me for it. He said the other night that he finds my veganism frustrating.
Children is also a issue and i can't imagine brining up vegan or even vegetarian children with meat in the house.
Am i being un- reasonable in this?
We spoke the other night about ending it and one of his reasons for wanting to was my veganism i also agreed. As you know veganism is a lifestyle change epesically for me. I know i've changed majorally and this is probably part of the prob too.
He's excellent in that he doesn't eat in front of me and is basically vegan when i'm with him.
The problem is living together, i don't want to live with a meat eater again, i know some people are fine with it but i just can't handle the smell of meat especially when its cooking. I realise that he will continue to be a meat eater but what about no meat in house rules, has anyone done this?
Even if he agrees to such a thing i think he will end up resenting me for it. He said the other night that he finds my veganism frustrating.
Children is also a issue and i can't imagine brining up vegan or even vegetarian children with meat in the house.
Am i being un- reasonable in this?