i was gonna say something tacky like.....send him to Georgia? lolOriginally Posted by Poppy
Docs used to recommed stretching before labor (I know, not the advice you were looking for!!!). They used to recommend massaging vitamin e oil into the lower vagina and using fingers to stretch the area. Might help!
Originally Posted by HandcuffedAngel
I would suggest working on a way to stretch it out a bit, as suggested by Janie. Dildos and vibrators will help, and lubricant for a rough entry is going to help you a ton in this situation.
A tried and true method of stretching I used, and this is going to sound weird, was Sharpies. Bottom end in first. You can slide them in one at a time, they're sleek, they're painless, they work.
It'll seem a little weird at first, but it should help get that bad boy in.
This is definitely true. I didn't realize how much so until I was actually in labor. It was next to impossible to fully relax all those muscles. It took time, and a lot of coaching and concentration - - however, a baby head is more along the lines of 43 sharpies.... yowza.Originally Posted by Savannah
there are actually a lot of muscles around the area that sometimes people are not in tune with. i have taken ballet and dance since i was 5 and i have very strong muscles in the groin area. learning to relax those muscles to allow him to enter you might be even better than all the lubes and stuff (although im sure that they can help). at least that is my experience, cuz i had to learn to relax them myself when sex with me was actually painful for a bf when i was new to sex. being in tune with those muscles can be really cool in sex too