|Topic Review (Newest First)|
|08-08-2009 01:43 PM|
|1815alan||Take your time to really get to know him, if you both feel the same way there is no hurry. Good luck, I hope you have both found what you were looking for.|
|08-07-2009 10:16 PM|
For me, I knew RIGHT away that my guy was The One.
Someone asked how I knew. I said, "I knew because the phrase 'You'll just KNOW' made complete sense to me for the first time. It always used to sound a little wishy-washy. But suddenly, it made sense. And that True Love all the great poets and writers have written about for centuries that seemed so eye-roll-worthy? It doesn't sound cheesy anymore. It sounds understated. I finally get what they were all talking about."
I'm so happy you're happy!
|08-07-2009 09:58 PM|
|River||We're still doing really really well, it's just about the best begining to a relationship i've ever had. EVER. I love every minute we spend together, i mean, i've NEVER been like this in any other relationship.|
|08-07-2009 09:37 PM|
|Dave in MPLS||
The matter sounds resolved, yet I feel compelled to comment.
The best relationship I ever had started with a impulsive makeout session. I'm usually much more cautious, but jumping in with both feet ended up being one of the best decisions I ever made.
Here's the catch: the WORST relationship I've ever had began the exact same way. These are pretty much the only two times I've said why not without doing some pretty extensive brainwork first. So 1-1. I'm guessing an intermediate approach would work best.
|08-05-2009 09:43 AM|
I would say give it a go. If you are worried about being hurt again take it slow but definately, if he seems this perfect for you isn't it possible that he really is? That's how I have my current perfect boyfriend, I was worried I was rushing into another relationship but he's the most amazing, caring, sweet, sexy, funny, beautiful man I know
Isn't it worth the chance?
|07-28-2009 07:54 PM|
|Skylark||Don't forget to continue spending time with your longtime friends. That you would regret.|
|07-28-2009 07:51 PM|
I'm SO glad! Going with your gut is awesome. Life is short, and regrets suck. But I'd rather have that small "eh, that sucks" regret about a relationship that went sour than the HUGE "I may have just walked away from my chance at happiness" regret about missing an opportunity like this!
|07-28-2009 07:36 PM|
It's only a few days later, I know, but we've seen each other four more times from our original chance meeting/first date.
We're both completely smitten with each other, and things are going fabulously. He's got... a pet pig XD named Annabelle, and is a life-long vegan. Things are absolutely FANTASTIC.
|07-27-2009 12:16 PM|
Do what you feel it's better. Sometimes we wonder between things, but there's always something that our intuition screams louder =P
The important is that you feel good with this guy. So enjoy every moments you spend together
Relax and enjoy without mind pressures to slow or jump
|07-27-2009 11:13 AM|
|GhostUser||Jump in! He's vegan! It's so hard to find a nice vegan guy.|
|07-25-2009 08:04 AM|
|khadijah||Go for it. Good luck|
|07-23-2009 04:20 PM|
|GhostUser||go for it....with caution...good luck and have fun|
|07-22-2009 10:49 PM|
awwww i'm so happy for you!!!
♫lyricgaia and vegan boy, sittin in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G..."♫ teeheehee
|07-22-2009 03:49 PM|
Go slowly and wait to do anything drastic until you actually know the guy. I'm not a fan of changing anything about one's self strictly to please a SO.
There's something to be said for going for the gusto because you don't want to wonder what would have happened, but there's something to be said, too, for taking your time and being sure before getting yourself into something that's really hard to disentangle.
|07-22-2009 03:15 PM|
Great! Let us know how it goes.
|07-22-2009 02:52 PM|
Hehe, I agree completely.
Thanks guys! You've totally given me the courage I need!!!
|07-22-2009 12:57 PM|
I am going to jump on the bandwagon that is saying... Go for it.
I have always been the kind of girl that follows my heart (to a flaw sometimes).
You don't want to miss an opportunity and always wonder "what could have happened".
|07-22-2009 04:32 AM|
|Kiz||Jump right in!|
|07-21-2009 11:11 PM|
No need to explain.
|07-21-2009 11:05 PM|
|synergy||I say trust your intuition and don't hold back, but don't marry him next week either.|
|07-21-2009 11:03 PM|
|Princess Peach||Well, I would say "go for it!" but you know me, that does not mean going to bed right away. Go for it with the dating, slow with the.. uh... other.|
|07-21-2009 10:56 PM|
|Tori~CL||Jump in and go for it. But that is just me.|
|07-21-2009 05:03 PM|
|Chrysalis||Do whatever feels right. Just make sure to leave the switch in your brain turned to ''on.'' You can't fully trust someone until you've known them for a while, but that doesn't mean you can't have a good time|
|07-21-2009 02:23 PM|
|VeganTigress||I am the kinda girl who thinks what wouldn't you do for the right guy? I ended up with my amazing husband because of it. Had i worried about the horrible relationship i was in for the previous 5 years I may not have given my hubby to be a chance.|
|07-21-2009 02:20 PM|
No risk, no reward!! I've always been the type to jump right in with both feet.
If you feel it, why stifle it or hold it in or pretend you don't? Tell him! If you want to spend every moment with him, spend every moment with him. Nothin wrong with that
|07-21-2009 02:01 PM|
So, I had a chance encounter with a man (I accidently spilled a plate of food on him at Organic Oasis, a restaurant in town), which led to dinner, which led to coffee, which led to talking, which has led to three subsequent dates.
He seems perfect for me, he's just... AH! So Amazing.
I recently got out of a really bad break up (recently being three months ago, I'm cool now...), I was just wondering how slow I should take this... or do you jump in with both feet? I know he feels the same way, he told me so anyhow. He just... seems too good to be true, Vegan, Tall, romantic... I feel like I need to be pinched... I just really don't want to get hurt again.
So, Go slow, or jump right in with both feet?