Lori and Lolo aren't paler than the average meat-eating person with northern European ancestry.
While I'm not oblivious to the fact there is some pre-judging involved with meeting any person, there are varying levels in the degree you change yourself to appeal to others. The people most determined to be prejudice will be prejudice despite your best efforts to outwit there misguided thoughts. Everyone has to decide where to draw the line for themselves. Basic hygiene is a good thing that most people appreciate, as is age/event appropriate clothing. Physically changing your body, avoiding healthy activities you'd enjoy, putting yourself at risk, etc. is a completely different matter.