I'm feeling a lot better now, sorry bout the rant, I was just so angry and had to let it out.
As far as the "friend" goes, I've been going back and forth with her for months trying to figure her out... she and I were close for a year until this other chick came around and started causing a lot of drama. At first my "friend" hated her guts, talked about her all the time and even talked to her to get more ammo to talk about her later... I didn't think much of it but I didn't encourage her to do it because I thought it was just bad karma to be putting so much bad energy into something just for entertainment especially when it's messing with someone elses feelings. Then after awhile I think this woman started to grow on her and it was like one day she just stopped talking to me, hanging out with me, etc and was spending all of her time with the woman she supposedly hated.... well this got me thinkin "Is this girl really my friend..? or was she jerking me around like she was this other girl?" We started hanging around each other more because we work together now and sometimes she acts like nothing's wrong and others she complains about this chick non-stop.
So I'm thinking my "friend" is playing this game with me also.. and what makes me feel that way is the woman that said those things above doesn't speak to me or any of my other friends, therefore would have no way to get any kind of info on me if it weren't coming from my "friend". It's just upsetting how childish this all is... I mean I haven't dealt with people like this in so long, I really don't know what to think.
Sorry for the long post, I'm just baffled at this point.
Mainly I was interested in if anyone else on here has had similar situations and what they've done?