I personally dont know what I am, I had one fling with a girl once, because I was curious. Anyway sometimes I find my self looing at  women.

 I have a lot of gay and lesbian friend tho. Love em and would not want anything different. 

I would like to point out that for many polyamorous people, they're not seeing polyamory as a lesser-of-two-evils compared to adultery. There are soooo many ways to be polyamorous and to structure your relationships and/or sexual partners. To some who insist on a very specific definition of monogamy for all couples, they're just as horrified by couples that might be open to a third sexual partner on a limited basis who was into both of them as they are by people who do whomever whenever they want within the bounds of protected sex and consent. But it's really not the same thing at all. And, IMO, neither are inherently wrong, but they can become just as messed up as any dysfunctional traditional marriage.