One of my closest friends near me is a mother of four who is 13 years older than me. I just go over and spend time with her and the kids.
I realize if I were looking for a significant other, this wouldn't be a good strategy. But, in the point in life where I find myself, I'm quite happy with this arrangement. (She did tell me yesterday repeatedly she wants to marry me because I do dishes without being asked, but this seems to be a no-no in Ohio.)
Q: How many poets does it take to change a light bulb? A: 1001...one to change the bulb, 1000 to say it's already been done.