Just how is your relationship WITH LIFE ??
(Reality based, helpful philosophy for day to day living..)
What defines you or the way you live, and the life you strive for, in general terms without it becoming all analytical ??[Mod-note first of all, although comments and opinions ARE WELCOME, I am not really trying to debate this, certainly not COMPOST HEAP STYLE anyway!!! and therefere I'd really appreciate this thread having a go at staying put in the RELATIONSHIPS forum, for a time at least, and permanent if possible]
I ASK ALL with the intelligence, to produce GOOD ANSWERS; and preferably regardless of where you be right now, which is VB
(& its very flawed psychology especially on subjects such as this), so regardless of VB
influence on your life if that helps you be more objective about my question and your life's inclinations and questions about which...then proceed to read the following.
OK, pause a moment, take a bit of a breath, coz for some it may appear like I am intellectualizing, when in fact no....
But look anyway, about your life and your supposed relationship with it, which maybe of your choosing or not, how you end up intentionally or not.
However you end up being, as you are, and perhaps unhappily stuck in whatever circumstances you happen to be in, this may interest you to think about HOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH LIFE IS:
ESPECIALLY FOR THOSE WHO EXPERIENCE, BASICLY -ANY
- DEGREE OF DIS-SATISFACTION WITH IT> etc > and so on >... (which is pretty much ALL OF US EXPERIENCE--- *IN SOME FORM, -- thru own knowledge or knowledge gained moreso from others ----whichever)...And just the fact we know all too well life's problems, at least that which is obvious to our own knowledge as individuals AKA personal problems and the rest...."AND THE REST" part...Now that is of particular interest I find... because HOW DEEP or HOW FAR do you NEED<?> to go in putting things 'right' ??>>) soooo.... People in difficult circumstances lets begin with if you want, YOU (and yeah ME) may find this thread interesting, particularly as it is then that people wanna climb out of their pit and think on up some of the stuff which is making or breaking them or that which is even more down to earth than that only not as cut & thrust as that.... but whatever it is it makes their/your/my life a feat or cluster of things which are a collection of relationships &/or experiences, which make up the whole.
The point being I guess -- being all presumptuous and stuff, or no, matter of fact, I think we all have one, that is maybe a symbiotic relationship with life (or whatever) in that its all mixed up and doesn't all necessarily turn out to be a cohesive relationship, ie, things do not stick when you want them to stick, and then you realize, either that is not meant to stick or it won't stick as a good thing because its just not meant for me or something like that?????... Else if we get lucky about the choices we make in life, I guess what happens is we try to marry one thing and another (kinda symbiotically) sometimes with luckless/fateful attitude (some might say) to formulate what is commonly dubbed lifestyle (or lifestyles -- more than one rolled into one -- if not all areas of your life fits into one neat box which of course it often doesn't).... Sooooooo, sometimes things just end up the way you WOULD in half-hearted mood expect.... What then is the prognosis for CHANGING whatever thing like that, whereby despite what one might call best intentions still has to overcome the unpredictable elements of life which although not the beall + endall of what I am saying, does play a part in influencing our subconcience to do what we do and end up as we be, concerning lifestyle and general attitude toward life.
Is life due to reality setbacks for instance, about what you need
<?> to UNDERGO, or what you must suffer to get (what you want out of life) or are your opinions that life can be much more pleasuarble than that, and it is possible to be much more optimistic about life than that??