so...i need some advice. Because I keep switching tactics due to no firm decision on the best approach.
I've fallen really hard for a close friend. it's ridiculous. biggest thing I've felt . he's perfect for me, we're perfect together, that's why we're such inseperable chums! The attraction's mutual but he has a girlfriend and is a great boy...aka would never dream of cheating. He had her before he met me and I have no desire to shake that up (nor could I if I wanted to , I think).
Anyway, we're in constant contact and every evening there seems to be something on to do together. If it's not things like that, its phones and sms. We like the same music, the same places, the same..world. I don't know. There's so much to say and I just never get tired of him. SO..my question is, maybe from someone who's been in the same situation, is it smarter to distance myself for a while or if I continue to hang out with him will this crush pass? I've been trying that this week and I feel really bad..I keep making up excuses not to go and do fun things that I want to do
it sucks. But is it easier that way? just for a while?
hmm. I just...yeah. It's hard to explain...
I hope someone could make sense of that random and help me protect my amazing friendship, and help me kill attraction...