Originally Posted by TrailMix
My wife eats meat. The thing is, when I met her, we were both veg*n, and I felt an immediate connection to her because of it. Since she started eating meat again almost a year ago, it's been a really tough adjustment for me. We don't eat together much anymore, and when we do, she won't eat the stuff I've prepared for the family. Thankfully, she has respected my wishes to continue to raise our little girls as veg*n. It's just a tough adjustment, but I think it's like any change that a partner goes through; the other partner is affected, too.
That is rough, I hope you can still live in harmony with that. Ultimately that would be the problem. I think while your dating it is kinda ok, the little problems dont seem so bad, but in the long run and as a life partner it would be tremendously difficult for me to maintain a harmonious relationship with someone who doesnt share these patterns.