I agree, I agree, I agree. I'm finding out that Seusomon is always an infinite source of wisdom.
As for sex, it's really simple. Everyone wants it
I'd like to add two more things.
a) Making generalizations about (large) groups of people is never good, you said it yourself. Personally, I don't want to have to do much with the values and behavioral patterns of many men (AND women!), and don't like to be thrown in the same box with them by "men are...", "men want...", "men do..." etc. I'm not an elitist, but frankly I have met many guys I had very little in common with (e.g. in our opinions about relationships).
b) A relationship is the most personal thing between two people. It's just you and him. You ask us if "they" would want to "do things". You should ask them
what they want, not us, and also tell them
about your worries and what you want (I agree that you may have to think about what you want first, heh). If you find out that you can't talk to them about everything, then it should be clear that they are not right for you. Honesty, respect and communication on both sides are very important, as important as love is.
That you are not interesting is bogus. Everyone is interesting and boring at the same time. Life is beautiful and so are by far most people.
Good luck in finding the right person for you! At the same time, don't make your happiness be solely depending on if you find a guy or not. Relax and don't worry too much. Enjoy your life
My two cents!