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#1 Old 07-22-2003, 05:09 PM
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Well, relationships sometimes fail. And I've just had a nasty breakup. Five months of a relationship which felt more like a mutual relationship, and in away, I'm glad to be out of it.



She wsn't ready for a relationship. It kind ashowed, because I was extremely pissed off because her commitment level was about zero. So we just broke up five minutes ago, with me blaming her and her blaming me. Basically, I complained that we never saw each other, and that she didn't commit herself to me enough ,and she complained that I was too clingy, and it all went downhill. Now it's sunken.



dammit, I wish there was beer in the house. I need to drown my sorrows.
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#2 Old 07-22-2003, 05:29 PM
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Loki! I'm so sorry!! Breakups are never easy, even if it's the right thing to do.



Don't know if this will make you feel any better or not, but a couple of us in Atlanta were commenting on how she wasn't near good enough for you (and we don't know anything about her; we just know that you deserve someone who recognizes you for the fun, caring, intelligent, wonderful person you are!)



Hang in there, buddy. Drink some beer.
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I have your own words of advice for you: "Show love without remorse!"
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#4 Old 07-22-2003, 05:52 PM
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Hehe. Drink a beer, shave your legs, put on a short skirt, and find yourself a better fish.
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#5 Old 07-22-2003, 06:02 PM
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Aww Loki that sucks (even if it is for the best). Im sorry.
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Hurts now, but soon you'll be glad... You need a fellow felafel-lover...
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#7 Old 07-22-2003, 06:53 PM
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Sorry to hear that Loki.
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Well, they aren't my own words. I nicked them from a chili peppers song.



Oh well, I'll keep my eye out for anyone else who wants a relationship.
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Well ok, but SHOW LOVE WITHOUT REMORSE, sounds like it could be something "cruel to be kind" or some such thing... and thats why its a *****... (to be frank)... and note I said IT not SHE.
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#10 Old 07-22-2003, 08:12 PM
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Loki!
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Very sorry to hear that. Go indulge yourself by making a compilation of all the songs that remind you of her and listen until you are sick and bored of thinking of her, so then you can go have fun instead.
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#12 Old 07-22-2003, 08:14 PM
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I believe that everything happens for a reason and no relationship is a waste of time as long as you can learn from it.(UGH! SO cliche') Take whatever it is that she gave you-good or bad and never forget it.

I had a terrible experience with a past bf and I felt like such an idiot for putting up with so much for so long. But today I am so happy with all that I have and all that I am. Unfortunately I have to throw some credit his way even though he was a controlling,deer-killing,flesh-eating,drug-abusing,physically-violent d*ck! Sorry.... I better stop there. Anyway, somehow you will feel better day after day and find someone who wants you around. What kind of girl has a problem with"clingy" anyway!!
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#13 Old 07-22-2003, 08:23 PM
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I wasn't even clingy. the thing is, I hardly ever saw her. I complained that I neve rgot the chance to see her, and all the *****ing started.
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I'm sorry Loki. I apologise on behalf of all the women out there. We are not all evil!

I hope you start to feel more positive as soon as possible.
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woohoo Vb ladies loki is a free man



i am certain you will find a girl who is much better for you.. have fun finding her!
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#16 Old 07-22-2003, 08:47 PM
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Poor Loki, have a beer Just remember, better to break up now, then in a few years, at least you won't have wasted any more time. I'm sure the ladies will be lining up!
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#17 Old 07-22-2003, 09:35 PM
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Yup, remember, Loki is now single. So send a picture and all about yourself to:



Loki, King of Evil,

Behind the pipes,

Third cubicle along,

Public Toilets (Male),

Winter Gardens

Blackpool, Lancashire, England



And Fiona wasn't evil. She's a great person. It's just that she's not ready for a relationship yet. (Though it took her 5 months to figure that one out) Anyway, I'm single, so if any women of VB want a lover, or if any non-heterosexual men of VB are after someone special, then you know where to come!
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#18 Old 07-23-2003, 01:43 AM
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dude that's totally what ALWAYS happens to me. always. gah.
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#19 Old 07-23-2003, 02:56 AM
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I'm sorry you had a bad breakup Loki.
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#20 Old 07-23-2003, 04:29 AM
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Originally posted by Loki





dammit, I wish there was beer in the house. I need to drown my sorrows.

.............im blitzed right now buddy for that very reason...................ill toss one or two down for ya....no pain for budda
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#21 Old 07-23-2003, 04:41 AM
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I'm sorry things didn't work out, Loki.
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#22 Old 07-23-2003, 07:40 AM
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sorry



i think i might be going through the same thing soon



so maybe ;-)
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#23 Old 07-23-2003, 09:47 AM
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sorry to hear about your break up.



sounds to me like she may have been pretty stressed anyway, and like you said, not ready. Better to just let her go.



hope you're feeling better soon.
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#24 Old 07-23-2003, 11:47 AM
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Love's a full contact sport...you play it long enough and two things are bound to happen: 1)you'll get hurt, 2) you'll hurt someone else. They both suck, but it's worth it. It's definitely better than the alternative.



Sorry about your breakup.
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#25 Old 07-23-2003, 12:41 PM
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Well, I'm taken, not to mention ten years too old But there must be some lovely young VBers here ... any in Britain?



I drank a beer for ya last night, Loki, I just didn't know that's what it was for at the time.
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#26 Old 07-23-2003, 01:00 PM
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woohoo Vb ladies loki is a free man



My thoughts exactly Oneness!! hehe





Jk Loki break ups suck but it was for the best
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#27 Old 07-23-2003, 02:37 PM
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aww I'm sorry Loki.. you'll find someone better though!
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#28 Old 07-23-2003, 05:25 PM
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it could be worse Loki, it could be worse....
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#29 Old 07-23-2003, 05:38 PM
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woohoo Vb ladies loki is a free man






OH YEAH!



j/k...a wee bit far away, lol.



I'm sorry the break up was bad Loki...I had a break up with the only boyfriend I'd ever had in February...right before five months and Valentines. It was hard because he was my best friend. But, I'm sure your break up was for the best - If you break up, it probably wasn't meant to be, but it's still hard, I know. Have some hugs and do things that make you happy.
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