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#1 Old 12-09-2004, 07:55 AM
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I thought it would be a good idea to start a thread about everyone's break up stories. Please share!
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#2 Old 12-09-2004, 08:08 AM
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Any kind of break up stories? Mine is kind of funny. My ex and I had been having trouble for quite some time. Most days near the end when I got home from work he was gone (either at work or out) and wouldn't arrive home until I left for work in the morning. He was not contributing financially. And the mofo would just not leave!



One morning he came home as I was getting ready for work. Rent was due. I asked him for money to help out. He claimed not having a dime. Ok, whatever. I had learned long ago it was not in my best interest safety-wise to argue with him. So he went to bed.



On my way out I checked his car. Under his seat was $700 in cash. I snagged it and went to work. Around lunchtime I get a call.



Him: "Where is it?"

Me: "Where is what?"

Him: "The money! Where is my money?"

Me: "You don't have any money. Remember? You told me so yourself this morning."



Long story short (I know too late)... I told him the only way he would get it back was when he took his stuff and showed up at my work with his apt keys. I had a friend meet him in the secured desk lobby to do the switch off. She swore she was so tempted to only give him half of it back.



And then, thank goodness, he was gone. After that we got divorced.
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A three year relationship gone bad...he just stopped calling, pretty much started dating someone else and wouldn't respond to e-mails, etc. When I showed up in the rain at his house one afternoon to demand he at least be man enough to tell me to my face that it was over, he laughed at me....shook his head, f'n laughed and said "you just don't get it".
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#4 Old 12-09-2004, 08:46 AM
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This one's about, probably the biggest loser I ever dated. He broke up with me 10 minutes before my first art show ever. So then we got back together (I know, I was stupid), he asks me to prom and I buy a dress and shoes. I spent about $350 on them. The day before prom he breaks up with me again! And I couldn't even return the dress because I got it on sale.
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Oh, yeah. And this was all because I wouldn't have sex with him. I was only 17!
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#6 Old 12-09-2004, 09:46 AM
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Soo many relationships.... soo much drama... too much to write about!
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#7 Old 12-09-2004, 11:50 AM
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Heh..which breakup to you want? I have several. Here's the top three.



1. After two years of not bieng able to go outside, have friends, or look people directly in the eye (serious) I decided to leave my hubby. I had the last straw right after Christmas. He bought a tree home from his job at home depot, we decorated it and the next night he came home plastered...took an axe (yep an axe) and CHOPPED the tree down (with the decorations). I left the apartment with 12 bucks, and the clothes I was wearing and got the hell outta there the next morning while he was at work. He never came after me, but he did call a few times. I told him if he ever came near me I'd chop him up in lil pieces and put him out on the curb with the other garbage. That was enough..we divorced a couple months later.



2. I had this guy I was dating. He spent the night at my house, and his pager went off around 7 am. I called it back, thinking it was his brother, but it was some chick telling me that he was her man..etc. etc. During this time, there was a song out called "I dont ever want to see you again." about a guy who got a Dear John letter from his chick..well bieng the creative person I was, I got up, wrote a Dear *&%$# letter telling him I knew about that other girl and to never call me again. I get dressed for work...kick him and wake him up, point him towards the bus stop and hand him the letter. He read it at the bus stop and hung his head down in shame. Me and the girl he was cheating with became friends..she dumped his ass too.



3. I was dating a female who was suicidal. And Jealous. Did I mention this chick was jealous? Well, one day she sees me with a female relative and goes off the deep end. She calls me saying "Oh...I saw you riding with some *****...oh I guess you think you look so good...etc. etc. I hung up in her face, thinking it was over. Hell no. The next day I go to the mailbox, there's a letter in it....with blood on it, sayin next time it would be MY blood on the letter. This chick had cut her wrist..with a razor blade and put it on the letter. Yeah..I told you she was crazy, didn't I? Anyhoo, the next day she said she would come by and "deal" with me about me hanging out with someone else. I wasn't scared, but I was looking out the window every few minutes... heh she never showed - she was arrested on her way there...and she's still there. Ha! I didn't have to break up with her...the judge broke us up.
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When I was in high school, I was breaking up with a guy and I was going to give him the old "It's not you, it's me" schpiel. But- I accidently told him "It's not me, it's you!"

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I like your break up stories better than mine. I just got dumped for other guys alot. I've never gotten back together with anyone. I've never had a big fight that leads to a breakup. Just, one day, they started seeing someone else, and then dumped me. I had that happen four times.



I guess the saddest part was, after the fourth time, I didn't date at all for like 10 years. I had a momentary fling here and there (all disasters), but nothing else. No steady GF or anything.



On the other hand, my budweiser stock went through the roof and I wore out 6 VCRs.







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#10 Old 12-09-2004, 03:30 PM
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I have a good one!



We were together for about a year. And we'd begun having problems, but... I told him I was thinking about going vegetarian. He told me that was silly and he couldn't be with me anymore if I did, because, he couldn't marry someone who wouldn't buy a leather couch with him and share steak dinners. He said the ideal of marriage his parents had set for him was two people sharing a romantic steak dinner.



I told him maybe we shouldn't be together, then.
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I was living with my boyfriend at the time and he wanted to move to a city about an hour away so he could be closer to his family. I moved with him.. but I was bored and he was annoying me. So I left and went back home while he was at work one day. He ended up moving back to be with me.. then I broke up with him again.



I always end up in on again off again relationships. I think I want to be with someone .. then I change my mind and break it off.
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I had a boyfriend when I was 18 that developed a crush on my best friend, and made it pretty obvious too. I was too chicken to kick his ass about it, and then he broke up with me and asked her out two days later. Luckily for me, she told him to bugger off. Turns out that everyone else in my life (family and friends) couldn't stand him, and they were only being nice to him out of respect for me.
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Usually what happens is I tell a guy that I don't love him or don't like him, he begs me to give him another chance, I do, out of the kindness in my heart, feeling sorry for the beggar, and then I break up with him later on, telling him that I still don't love him. I'm not one for unhappy-ever-afters, so I need to stop giving the jerks a second chance with me. *shrugs*
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I am a very laid back guy, and I tend to give too much in relationships. My wife the coolest, calmest woman in the world physically attacked me one day and 3 days later took every penny of mine.



When she came back to town, she tried to get back together with me.



My rule in life is "never look back".



If they do it once, they will do it again.
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I am a very laid back guy, and I tend to give too much in relationships. My wife the coolest, calmest woman in the world physically attacked me one day and 3 days later took every penny of mine.

Oh my goodness, that's awful!



I have a breakup story. So, I was going out with this guy for three weeks. Then, out of the blue he calls me and tells me "it isn't working out." I found out through a friend that he dumped me for another girl...the other girl dumped him an hour later. But, anyways, a week later, he calls me back, begging for my forgiveness without actually apologizing, asking to get back together. So I give in and say yes. So, we go for a week, all happy dandy, and then all the sudden, he tells me this story. Hes like "That party I went to last night? I was so f***ed up on so much sh!t and I...uh...hooked up with somebody." Doh. I went for a few days not knowing what to do, then I broke up with him. Then he told my friend that the reason he told me about hooking up at the party was so I would break up with him because "he didn't want to break up with me again." I told him to f**k off.



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Oh, yeah. And this was all because I wouldn't have sex with him. I was only 17!

YUP! I am only 17 now, but when i was 14 (freshman year) my boyfriend of 2 years and best friend since kindergarten dumped me because I wasn't ready to lose my virginity yet! I'm so glad that I was strong enough to say 'no'--it was probably the best decision in my life, because I had the chance to lose my virginity to someone i truly love and someone who truly loves me (how could the ex have loved me as much as he said if he couldn't respect my decision to wait!!!?!?!)



that was the worst breakup thus far...and hopefully the worst in my lifetime
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ummmmm let's see -short version-after I kicked out my ex-husband and he found out I was seeing someone---he started leaving me messages(I was in Orlando at the time with work) that he knew who he was and he was going to kill him and get away with it and all this other stuff........too long of a story-needleass to say nothing happened.
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ummmmm let's see -short version-after I kicked out my ex-husband and he found out I was seeing someone---he started leaving me messages(I was in Orlando at the time with work) that he knew who he was and he was going to kill him and get away with it and all this other stuff........too long of a story-needleass to say nothing happened.

Oh my goodness, did you report him to the police??? That sounds so scary!
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My worse breakup story was with my first boyfriend (first break ups are always the worst!) After playing mind games with me for a month (and cheating on me multiple times, I found out later) he finally sat me down and told me he had felt nothing for me, I had just been a relief, nothing more. What an *******.
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Oh my goodness, did you report him to the police??? That sounds so scary!

Well I saved all the messages on my phone and I went to file a restraining order and they refused to listen to the messages! Anyways they never served him his restrsining order and so I had to refile again and they told me if he wasn't served a 3rd time, they automatically drop it, even though it is their fault!!!!! They pretty much said he'd have to do something for them to take any real action.They wouldn't let me hire a PI or call and tell them where he was to serve him or anything....so I mailed him a copy with the court date on it and the court told me that it didn't count. I called the sherrif's office the day before the hearing at 5pm(the serving deadline) and they still hadn't served him....



So I'm like screw it at this point, I'm not driving back all the way downtown for them to drop it and crap...so anyway I didn't show, but he did!!!! They dropped the charges and sent me the court fees!!!!!!



Well, when we finally went before a magistrate for the divorce, he showed his ass so much they asked me if I wanted a police escort to my car!!!



Thank Buddha or whomever that that was the last time I've ever heard from him! Over 2 years ago.



I did see him was windows at a Wendy's a few months ago
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