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#1 Old 11-12-2004, 08:13 PM
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My oh my. I have just got to have the worst possible track record when it comes to (romanitc) relationships.

And the sad thing is...I don't really think I've ever even had a 'real' one yet!



First, there is a guy who goes to school with me who I totally love and flirt with constantly. And it's so great we have so much in common, etc, etc.....come to find out he has a GF. Who constantly IMs me and leaves comments on my Live Journal page like there's no tomorrow.

But you must understand, I've never really had a 'crush' on a boy before like this...I was pratically locked away for all of high school (all-girls Catholic dealie) and had issues before that inhibited me from 'getting out' into the social scene with my peers like a normal, socially-adjusted child would have.

So, basically, I'm going through adolescence and all of the lovely complicated issues and emotions that comes with it now. But I'm 18 and in college. again.



Thing #2 (this is where it gets weird, then I'll stop--I promise!!):: There's a girl who also goes to school with me who I was friendly with since orientation at the beginning of summer and during school events, and blah, blah, blah. Well, apparently she goes both ways with her romanitc interests and has a crush on me.....and the boy I like!!!



Aw man....it's just all so weird...there's other stuff too...mostly in the past now whoever, but, jeez, ya know?! I dunno what to do here! (I don't even really know why I'm posting it all here either, thought I'd just amuse you all with my series of unfortunate events, I guess)

It's just all so freakin' weird!!!

"you know, nowhere in the bible does it say that jesus was not a raptor"


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#2 Old 11-12-2004, 08:24 PM
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That's messed up...
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Yes, and you know what's even more messed up?

The fact that she has (candid) pictures that she had taken of me posted on her website and blocked so I can't see them!!!



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#4 Old 11-12-2004, 09:11 PM
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well, not that I can give the best advice, but hey you're young...I wouldn't worry about a relationship now in your life....ge thru school and start a career and there will be plenty of time for Love! I'm 28 and still trying to figure it out!
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Me + Relationships = Not meant to be



I understand totally what you are saying.
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'tis sad.....ah well. I'll just have to die and get over it I guess.

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'tis sad.....ah well. I'll just have to die and get over it I guess.



That's what I figured I'd do.
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Dude, that's really messed up. It reminds me of my freshman year in HS.



But seriously, I know what you mean - I can't figure out relationships. At all. You know my IM/LJ/email if you need to talk.
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... talk about a love triangle ...
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hEY THERES notthing wrong with being single forever?



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hEY THERES notthing wrong with being single forever?



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I'll have to get back to you on that one.
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I know how you feel. I have the scariest track record ever. When I was in HS and College, I had four major relationships, all of which ended with her cheating on me and leaving me. (Not good for self-esteem at all, not at all.) I was near suicide a couple of times, I hurt so bad.



So, anyway, I know how you feel. When things suck really bad, you wonder if it is even possible for them not to. And I'm here to tell you, it's more than possible.



I am very happy with a wonderful girl right now. We've been together for nearly 5 years and not only do I have her, but her two wonderful kids on top of that.



Just keep believing that there's something better for you out there; because there is. You just haven't found it yet.







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Awww, thanks Rev.

That almost made me feel all hopeful and purpose-driven for half a second.

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But you must understand, I've never really had a 'crush' on a boy before like this



Every wonder why infatuations were nicknamed "crush"..........it is because of how you feel afterwards.......crushed. My advice, FWIW, if you are attracted to someone ask them out right away. If they aren't interested move on immediately.



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So, basically, I'm going through adolescence and all of the lovely complic

ated issues and emotions that comes with it now. But I'm 18 and in college. again.



18? You have your ENTIRE life ahead of you. There are people literally decades older then you who have the same ( and worse ) problems as you so you shouldn't feel bad about your situation.



I've read you posts, you seem like an intelligent and fun girl. I have seen your pics, you are a GOOD looking young woman. If I was a 1000 years younger and in your geography I would be asking you out to dinner tonight.



Your worries are all in your head. You are "behind" for your age, you have "romantic assets" waiting to happen, and you have decades to apply it all.

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Thanks a lot guys. And about the age thing...

It seems to me that everydody who's anybody already has a significant other now that they're in college. So I feel that since I was never hooked up in high school, I'm just gonna be left in the dating world dust, which is making me loose hope that I'll ever get the chance at a 'real' (healthy) relationship with another male.

Eh, maybe I never will. I'll live (then die quickly if I'm lucky!).

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IRL, I personally am totally different than everyone I've ever met or heard of so I bet I'll never be in a relationship, seriously. But for you, what beforewisdom is true though, you seem like someone that could easily find someone with similar interests, or just someone in general, soon enough. And 18 is not old at all. Just because the (same-aged) people around you are with someone does not mean it's like that everywhere, even though it might seem like it to you. You do have it a lot better than so many people, at least relationship-wise, like others have said, since there's still a lot of time. Oh well that's all I felt like saying
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Awww, thanks Rev.

That almost made me feel all hopeful and purpose-driven for half a second.



Hang in there Scorpius. Hang in there.







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Just play it cool. And kill the B**** with kindness.
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Just play it cool. And kill the B**** with kindness.



*wonders how I should go about doing that*



Yeah, that guy's girlfriend really needs to.....not be his girlfirend anymore. He's too aestheticaly pleasing to have one!!

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