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#1 Old 02-24-2016, 06:04 AM
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Married to a non vegan.

I am a new vegan! I am so happy with this lifestyle change, I want to share with everyone. My husband, 3 years married, isn't to happy about me wanting to change our kids diet. My oldest son, 7, told me today he wanted to be vegan like me! My husband told me I shouldn't. I would love some advice about how to change my husbands mind. He is very adamant that they boys will not get enough food.

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#2 Old 02-24-2016, 06:06 PM
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People thrive very well at every age (including the unborn) on completely plant based diets.
Having said that, there certainly is a big transition before you can feel 'normalized' as a vegan. There are different nutritional components, and ways to make food that most of us brought up on meat based 'traditional' diets don't think about. Making food becomes routine
Focus on getting to your 'normal' before really converting others. Your opinions will carry much more weight when you're living the proof!

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For now focus on switching foods. Go non dairy. No one needs milk, add calcium rich veggies, tofu, soy milk. NO soy will not feminize anyone! Make veggie filled soups, chili, tofu nuggets, -we used to have a more active "what I fed my veg kid" thread, but our 'what I ate veg today' still gets traffic.
good luck, and welcome!
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#3 Old 02-24-2016, 06:42 PM
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Mainstream health organizations differ in their recommendations for vegan diets for children.

The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics (the world's largest association of Registered Dietitians) makes this statement regarding vegetarian diets:

"It is the position of the American Dietetic Association that appropriately planned vegetarian diets, including total vegetarian or vegan diets, are healthful, nutritionally adequate, and may provide health benefits in the prevention and treatment of certain diseases. Well-planned vegetarian diets are appropriate for individuals during all stages of the life cycle, including pregnancy, lactation, infancy, childhood, and adolescence, and for athletes."

The American Academy of Pediatrics is more cautious in its recommendation:

"Following are the common categories of vegetarians. Although none eat meat, poultry, or fish, there are other areas in which they vary:
  • Lacto-ovo-vegetarians consume eggs, dairy products, and plant foods.
  • Lacto-vegetarians eat dairy products and plant foods but not eggs.
  • Vegans eat only plant foods, no eggs or dairy products.
Children can be well nourished on all three types of vegetarian diet, but nutritional balance is very difficult to achieve if dairy products and eggs are completely eliminated. Vegetarians sometimes consume insufficient amounts of calcium and vitamin D if they remove milk products from their diet."

In the event that you and your husband do introduce your kids to a vegan diet, please be aware that vegan nutrition recommendations for kids are different than those for adults. A low-fat vegan diet is not appropriate for children. Vegan Outreach has online resources for vegan children's nutrition:

You might find it useful to make an appointment with a local Registered Dietitian (RD) who specializes in pediatric nutrition and in vegetarian nutrition. A Registered Dietitian is a licensed professional with a university degree, national qualification, and compulsory ongoing education in human nutrition. About 40% of Registered Dietitians have a master's or doctoral degree as well. In the United States, you can find a local Registered Dietitian through the website of the Academy of Nutrition & Dietetics: . Just click on the red "Find An Expert" button in the upper right-hand part of the page.

Do not seek nutrition information from a "nutritionist". The title "nutritionist" has no legal meaning, and has no educational requirements. Literally anyone can do business as a "nutritionist":
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Specific recommendations for a healthy diet include: eating more fruit, vegetables, legumes, nuts and grains; cutting down on salt, sugar and fats. It is also advisable to choose unsaturated fats, instead of saturated fats and towards the elimination of trans-fatty acids."
- United Nations' World Health Organization

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#4 Old 02-25-2016, 03:37 AM
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Wow! Thank you guys so much! I will definitely find my new normal before changing my kids normal. My youngest actually loves eating rice and broccoli and my oldest loves salads. So there's a start.

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