This is going to be kind of confusing.
Basically my boyfriends mother disowned him because he is back in contact with his dad (because of me) which she tried so hard NOT to do? ( Why? I don't know, she is a very messed up person....)
My boyfriends aunt keeps contacting Myles telling him to "get over it, we all hated what our parents did to us as kids" etc etc etc. Which makes him feel like he is at fault for not talking to his mother. He has explained the situation many times and she just keeps saying the same thing. I don't want to get involved but I don't want her bringing my boyfriend down for no reason (he is 21, he shouldn't have to justify himself to talk to his own biological father!!!).
I want to just respectfully tell her that she should simply let it go and not get involved and she is making him feel like crap for her attitude and immaturity.
I don't know, I don't want to get involved and make things worse which is what I always seem to do as I am not good with words but blah! What do you think?
ÂBecause the heart beats under a covering of hair, of fur, feathers, or wings, it is, for that reason, to be of no account?Â - Jean Paul Richter