Well I am not trying to cut his sweet tooth, I just dont want any processed sugars introduced to him right now, I mean we havent even gotten into grapes yet, LOL
Anyway breastmilk is as sweet as sugar so I dont think it would matter, LOL, I just dont want to make him a cake with too many processed items.
I have found the cake I want and it is all natural sweeteners.
It is a carrot cake with of course carrots, organic pressed apple juice, organic brown rice flour(which I am going to make a practice cake and if it does turn out too heavy, then I will use something lighter or something). Bananas and applesauce and a few other ingredients.
I want to avoid all added sweeteners and only use what is necessary, because I want it to be a simple cake. He eats sweet potatoes and pears and bananas sometimes and they are all naturally sweet and to me the pears are sweeter than sugar.
Anyway, thanks for the help! Hopefully I can make something that will take a good picture and get really messy in(because isnt that what the birthday cake at the party is about? LOL)