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#31 Old 07-01-2005, 11:05 PM
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I think its a fine line. I find plenty of physically mature underagers extremely attractive physically. Its not something I believe to be abnormal. To me, its their young brains that make them out of bounds. The disturbing behavior is when a person specifically preys on someone because they are innocent, untouched, niave, etc. To me thats just wrong
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Would a poll asking Eagle Scouts if they enjoyed being ogled by their Scoutmaster's be more appropriate than this one, less appropriate or the same. Why?
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Would a poll asking Eagle Scouts if they enjoyed being ogled by their Scoutmaster's be more appropriate than this one, less appropriate or the same. Why?



Are you talking to me? I really don't think kids like being gawked at by any adult unless its someone they have a poster of on their wall.
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sometimes, I think, someone may just be attractive to men. I'm told I look older than my age, and I know others who look older than I do while still my same age...so, I'm 17 and I get looks. is it still pervy if I look 20 or whatever? yes, it's creepy when someone is very obviously young--underage young--but who's to say its always THAT obvious? what I always understood about the attraction to the high school girls are that some have big breasts, nice bodies, or what have you, and that they just look GOOD because they are young and the wearing away of years past hasn't taken toll on their bodies. I'm not condoning the ogling creepy behavior, and i know when it happens to me I feel a little creeped out. I just keep in mind that many girls my age are often mistaken for older, and for some of the men probably DO look like someone they could be with...legally.

as for checking out little girls who are obviously little girls, that's a psychological problem in my opinion and the behavior shouldn't be tolerated. because a lot of the time something like that can turn dangerous.
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Would a poll asking Eagle Scouts if they enjoyed being ogled by their Scoutmaster's be more appropriate than this one, less appropriate or the same. Why?





canteen boy? *falls over*
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I think its a fine line. I find plenty of physically mature underagers extremely attractive physically.

Do you mind if I ask how old you are? I'm thinking it changes as we get older (for some at least) as that has been my experience.
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Are you talking to me? I really don't think kids like being gawked at by any adult unless its someone they have a poster of on their wall.



Nah I was just wondering in general if we were more easily able to accept straight dirty old men than gay ones.
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Lets not go there
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Do you mind if I ask how old you are? I'm thinking it changes as we get older (for some at least) as that has been my experience.



I already stated my age in this thread ... but I'll tell ya again ... I'm 28. I still get hit on by the barely legals and honestly don't always see much of a physical difference between a mature post-puberty high school student and an early 20-something who takes care of himself. The big difference is the mental and emotional stuff. I'd expect I'd still find fit young men attractive when I'm an old lady. They just wouldn't be for me. Just like the underagers age now ... not for me.
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I don't believe you can control who you're attracted to - only how you react to those feelings.



Yup



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Nah I was just wondering in general if we were more easily able to accept straight dirty old men than gay ones.



Ah. I haven't noticed a homo vs. hetero issue, but maybe I need to reread.
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I don't believe you can control who you're attracted to - only how you react to those feelings.



If you had the hots for high school girls wouldn't not asking them if they liked it be a good way to react?
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Ah. I haven't noticed a homo vs. hetero issue, but maybe I need to reread.



I created the issue. So you are saying it is a non issue and the aforementioned polling of Eagle Scouts would be appropriate?
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I created the issue. So you are saying it is a non issue and the aforementioned polling of Eagle Scouts would be appropriate?



It would be as appropriate as asking teenage girls if they liked having middle-aged men eye them.
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So what happens to the "high school hotties" that enjoy being oggled by older men? They vote "yes" and now Rev knows who to hit on? "High School Hotties" sounds like the name of a porno mag.

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I already stated my age in this thread ... but I'll tell ya again ... I'm 28. I still get hit on by the barely legals and honestly don't always see much of a physical difference between a mature post-puberty high school student and an early 20-something who takes care of himself. The big difference is the mental and emotional stuff. I'd expect I'd still find fit young men attractive when I'm an old lady. They just wouldn't be for me. Just like the underagers age now ... not for me.

I'm sorry; I missed your age in this thread. I can see what you're saying. hmmm, maybe it's a settling down thing for me at least. I had my last dating experiences with a 20 year old when I was around 27-28 and then got hitched with a long-term relationship with someone my age. I really felt like I was just too old. Now, I feel like I can spot a high school guy a mile a way but maybe its cuz Im in my thirties and Im experiencing the whole generation gap scenario for the first time.
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So what happens to the "high school hotties" that enjoy being oggled by older men? They vote "yes" and now Rev knows who to hit on? "High School Hotties" sounds like the name of a porno mag.



A google search of that phrase, well, nothing good.
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I'm sorry; I missed your age in this thread. I can see what you're saying. hmmm, maybe it's a settling down thing for me at least. I had my last dating experiences with a 20 year old when I was around 27-28 and then got hitched with a long-term relationship with someone my age. I really felt like I was just too old. Now, I feel like I can spot a high school guy a mile a way but maybe its cuz Im in my thirties and Im experiencing the whole generation gap scenario for the first time.





Well, I don't really want a guy that young. They are just nice to look at. I'm emotionally attracted to men who are at least my age, if not older. The ideal would be a man in his upper 20's/early 30's who hasn't yet started the downward spiral of health due to poor choices and less than ideal genetics.
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Yep. A Google with "high school hotties" turns up a number of websites I'd be barred from linking with here. Quite a number.

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The good news is, that people who type that into google from now on might end up here.
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I guess I'd have to pick the last option. I'm no longer in high school, but I never had this problem when I was because I was never attractive to anyone (if someone did find me attractive, no one ever let me know about it.. though I think it was the pink/purple/blue/green/red etc. hair and piercings that turned away the potential oglers, but anyway!).



I agree 100% about not being able to control who you're attracted to, but it's how you act on it (or rather, don't act on it) that matters. About the title of the thread, I'm pretty sure the Rev meant it in a sarcastic, "hey, look at this!!" manner rather than trying to be deliberately distasteful or to reveal some sort of insight to his own opinion on the matter....... aww, I wanted to put a winking face and a tongue-stickin-out face, but I can't find the smilies (*sad face*)
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Some like 35+ guy was in Herbal Heaven, came and sat with me and my friends.. brought some stuff and gave it to me.. and was apparently hitting on me a lot.



So anyway.. I started sqwarking like a seagull.. and was all IMMA SEAGULL BWARK.



And apparently he like... RAN down the street.

It was hot as I'm sure.

But I dont go to highschool but im sure it counts. I guess when guys see my friends and I in town drinking/drunk they probably just assume we're over 18.. (legal age is 16)..
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The fact that The Rev might not have meant his thread title to be distasteful is more disturbing that if he hadn't.

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I don't believe you can control who you're attracted to - only how you react to those feelings.



I agree with this.
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I think who we are attracted to though speaks volumes of who we are. Ideally we grow emotionally and spiritually as we get older and so does our tastes.
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I think who we are attracted to though speaks volumes of who we are. Ideally we grow emotionally and spiritually as we get older and so does our tastes.



I agree.
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it rarely happened for me in high school (or i was just oblivious to it), but when it did happen, i didn't really appreciate it.
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what about the guys?

any "high school hottie" guys been oggled by older men?

and how did they feel about it?
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I wouldn't say I'm middle-aged yet (I'm 31) but I think I see where the Rev is coming from here. I have no problems seeing a younger female and thinking "that is an attractive young woman who will be very pretty when she's matured" but I don't personally ever think of trying to hit on them. I'm as nice to them as I am to anyone else, whether they are 3 or 99. I personally have always been more attracted to women that are mature than the "barely legal" set. And I think a lot of that is because I am attracted to a woman's personality, mindset and life experience as much as I am to her feminine wiles. Women are beautiful creatures, and I don't know a man (who is straight) who doesn't appreciate feminine beauty. I've also known gay men that will willingly say that they think a particular woman is beautiful. Beauty is beauty. I can readily say a good-looking man is good-looking just as quickly as I can say that a woman is.



The appropriateness factor enters the argument when the man in question decides it's okay to hit on someone who he shouldn't be. A good rule of thumb might be that if the woman (or man) in question is young enough to be your offspring, that might be a red flag...know what I mean?



I know that love is what love is. There are some couples who are very spaced out in their ages, and they are as happy as they can be. And I'm all for them, and their being happy. I am not, however, into inappropriate sexual advances or comments, whether they are from an older man to a younger woman, or vice versa.



We are all people. Everyone likes being told that they are attractive. However, that doesn't mean that it's always an invitation. There's a difference between looking at someone like this and looking at them like this .
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