I like my men fuzzy. Something to play with and snuggle up to. Not to mention it can feel very ..erm.."primal"?
Me personally, I shave my pits and groom my hoohoo. I dont bother with the legs becuase I dont get enough there...plus if I DO shave and don't upkeep they get the prickle thing which bugs me muchly.
I wish I didn't have to shave period...I wish our own natural bodies could be seen as sexy and beautiful as they are...However! I acknowledge the fact that in every society there are silly things we all conform to, and if I went around with hairy pits and such becuase of how we all were raised, I don't know if I would be comfortable with me, not to mention if whoever Im with would still be attracted to me. You might say "Hey..if they don't love you enough to stay with you hairy armpits and all...screw 'em" ...but then..someone earlier said something about respect for your partner and stuff.
Then, on the other hand, whats wrong with shaving/conforming? We all typically conform in some ways with our hair styles, clothing, etc. Its our culture. Every culture does stuff like this. Maybe when in Rome, don't grow a bush?
Now...conforming to something thats damaging,..unhealthy (Ie...genital mutilation) I'd say thats different.
Oh my, this could be a huge long conversation.