Originally Posted by V422005
I am relieved to hear a man say he hates porn. I was beginning to lose all hope.
I didn't write that I hated porn.
One thing you always read in obscenity debates is that it is next to impossible to defince "obscenity". One person's porn, is another person's erotica.
I have seen burlesque shows ( real burlesque, not poll dancing, stripping etc ) , read erotic stories, seen pictures of nude women, seen pictures of women dressed provactively and I have enjoyed them.
There are people who would call that pornography, obscene, and/or degrading.
On the other hand you will not find me in a strip club, an "adult" book store or in the "adult section" of a video store. Speaking only
for my own tastes, I find those things to be degrading, and worse.......dull.
After reading a recommendation made by a woman on VB
for the Suicide Girls site I have checking that site out a few times. Some people would ( & have ) called that site exploitative and pornographic. I probably wouldn't be looking at that site if I had a sexual relationship with a woman.........I wouln't need to.
I posted the article because I find it surprising that people with relationships still use porn.......that it has morphed beyond being a means to get off in lonely times into being an addiction as an end in itself.