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#1 Old 11-08-2013, 12:56 PM
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hello everybody so maybe you've heard this before maybe

 

1-is that girls aren't supposed to stay late alone even if they after over 18 because they might get raped...

 

1-women aren't supposed to wear shorts bikinis....

 

3-women aren't supposed to date because they could end up pregnant 

 

 

now my thoughts for these are

 

1-just because there's a chance that someone could rape a girl it's not her fault that she can't go and live her life and even if a girls is inside someone could break in and rape her too

 

2-it's just not fair that men can wear anything and girls can't why not

 

3-every child girl-boy should be taught that you can  date bt should know the circumstances of having sex when your young that you could end up getting a woman pregnant or that a woman would could get pregnant and would not be ables to raise a child they should know that there are limits like you can kiss hug and talk and love bt sex is wrong when your young and unable to take care of a family

 

 

please i need your thoughts i need other thoughts that would make me relax about this and realize that equality for all is right not wrong

 

and please correct me if i am wrong about anything

 

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   I broadly agree. But regarding number 2, I think there is a dress code for men also, maybe not quite as restrictive or judgmental generally, but a woman can wear "men's clothes" and get off lighter than men who "cross dress".

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   I broadly agree. But regarding number 2, I think there is a dress code for men also, maybe not quite as restrictive or judgmental generally, but a woman can wear "men's clothes" and get off lighter than men who "cross dress".

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Women should not have to fear being raped - rape is ALWAYS the fault of the rapist. It does not matter what the woman is wearing, doing, or how late she stays out.

The only way a woman can get pregnant is unprotected sex with a man. Dating is not unprotected sex, therefore simply dating will not get a girl pregnant.

A woman (or man) should wear what they want. I find it highly sexist and stupid men can be topless in public, or around a house, while woman can't simply because woman have more adipose tissue around their nipples than men. I don't get it. Were all the same species and have similar anatomy, why women are body shamed doesn't make ANY sense.
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Women should not have to fear being raped - rape is ALWAYS the fault of the rapist. It does not matter what the woman is wearing, doing, or how late she stays out.

The only way a woman can get pregnant is unprotected sex with a man. Dating is not unprotected sex, therefore simply dating will not get a girl pregnant.

A woman (or man) should wear what they want. I find it highly sexist and stupid men can be topless in public, or around a house, while woman can't simply because woman have more adipose tissue around their nipples than men. I don't get it. Were all the same species and have similar anatomy, why women are body shamed doesn't make ANY sense.

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thats kind of what i wanted to hear

What brought these questions up, Sam?

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#7 Old 11-09-2013, 12:17 AM
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What brought these questions up, Sam?

it's just that i don't wanna blame this on anyone maybe i never heard them before bt 

 

bt sometimes i have this thing that i belive in something and then my mind would go asking questions against the things that i believe in and then i start to stop beliveing in myself 

 

and sometimes i ask people there thoughts to boost my thinking up 

 

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and thank you river :)

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it's just that i don't wanna blame this on anyone maybe i never heard them before bt 

bt sometimes i have this thing that i belive in something and then my mind would go asking questions against the things that i believe in and then i start to stop beliveing in myself 

and sometimes i ask people there thoughts to boost my thinking up 

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This place is great for reinforcing opinions ;-) never stop asking questions.

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This place is great for reinforcing opinions ;-) never stop asking questions.

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