I have a feeling that what you/your daughter receives for benefits, falls way short of what she would be getting if she was a healthy mother of 10 that felt free money was better than earned money.
Personally, I would seriously like to see those checks reversed. Let the one that can work but wont get your daughters assistance, and let your daughter get theirs.
You know, I agree with you almost all the time on financial matters. Just not so much on anything else.